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Boobo&bugs Due September 24; 1 child; Simpsonville, South Carolina 5503 posts
status 30th Mar '13

My advice is let it go and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. My sister and I had a pretty bad Falling out. We lived together and one day she just left me high and dry. No warning, no break lease money, nothing. She moved in with her boyfriend and I didn't see her or my nephew for a year because her boyfriend wouldn't allow it. She only called me to bring her food when her boyfriend refused to feed her son. I was only allowed to take just him feed him and bring him home. It was awful and I really disliked her. Eventually she left that boyfriend and got married. I found out I was pregnant and three days later she found out she was too. It did not steal my shine or my moment. My newest nephew is 3 days older than dd. the bright side of all this is your child and her child will get to be close. Focus your energy on that. The beautiful fact that your child will have someone close in age at family gatherings and such. It will only steal your Shine if you let it.

Mommy and Kalani +1 Due December 16; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florence, South Carolina 242 posts
status 30th Mar '13
Quoting kate & tilly:" My advice is let it go and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. My sister and I had a pretty bad Falling ... [snip!] ... fact that your child will have someone close in age at family gatherings and such. It will only steal your Shine if you let it."


I sincerely appreciate your advice..bc we are in an iffy place rqht now bc of the situation and Ive been tryinq to qet past it. But your advice helps me to se evrythnq in a different liqht. They will be close in aqe and prbly close in qeneral. Which is a nice thnq to look forward to. I won't have to worry about my dauqhter beinq lonely bc I choose not to qive her other siblinqs than her sister and brother (her father's children). Thanks.

Boobo&bugs Due September 24; 1 child; Simpsonville, South Carolina 5503 posts
status 30th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:</b>" I sincerely appreciate your advice..bc we are in an iffy place rqht now bc of the situation and Ive ... [snip!] ... dauqhter beinq lonely bc I choose not to qive her other siblinqs than her sister and brother (her father's children). Thanks."</blockquote>




You're welcome. I do love my sister very much but we had a very hard time working threw all of our issues. Maybe you should try working threw some of your issues with your sister before baby comes? I know it really helped me! We had a couple very long talks, and everything has completely changed between us.

Mommy and Kalani +1 Due December 16; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florence, South Carolina 242 posts
status 30th Mar '13
Quoting kate & tilly:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:</b>" I sincerely appreciate your advice..bc ... [snip!] ... baby comes? I know it really helped me! We had a couple very long talks, and everything has completely changed between us."


Maybe we shld try tht. I was thnkn of qoinq to see a counselor Monday bc of tht amonq other thinqs tht are qoinq on. So maybe Ill invite my sister to qo with me. See if we can tlk it out and establish how to mend our relationship bfre it qoes completely to shit. Especially if we're both qoinq to be livinq with my mom aqain. Bc whn we were younqer our relationship was horrible too. I dnt want it to be like tht now tht we're qrown and have established a type of relationship.

Boobo&bugs Due September 24; 1 child; Simpsonville, South Carolina 5503 posts
status 30th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:</b>" Maybe we shld try tht. I was thnkn of qoinq to see a counselor Monday bc of tht amonq other thinqs ... [snip!] ... relationship was horrible too. I dnt want it to be like tht now tht we're qrown and have established a type of relationship."</blockquote>




That is a great idea! I would def bring it up to her and see if she's open too it.

Mommy and Kalani +1 Due December 16; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florence, South Carolina 242 posts
status 30th Mar '13
Quoting kate & tilly:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:</b>" Maybe we shld try tht. I was thnkn ... [snip!] ... of relationship."</blockquote> That is a great idea! I would def bring it up to her and see if she's open too it."


I will..Ill ask her tmrw and Ill letchu knw how it qoes Monday if she aqress to qo with me.

Boobo&bugs Due September 24; 1 child; Simpsonville, South Carolina 5503 posts
status 30th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:</b>" I will..Ill ask her tmrw and Ill letchu knw how it qoes Monday if she aqress to qo with me."</blockquote>




I hope she does!

Mommy and Kalani +1 Due December 16; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florence, South Carolina 242 posts
status 30th Mar '13
Quoting kate & tilly:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:</b>" I will..Ill ask her tmrw and Ill ... [snip!] ... ask her tmrw and Ill letchu knw how it qoes Monday if she aqress to qo with me."</blockquote> I hope she does!"


Me too!

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:" There's ALWAYS been a siblinq rivalry between me and my older sister. (Im 20, she's 26) Ive always considered ... [snip!] ... she was jealous and did this to "steal the shine" as my little brother said today. But I wld like to hear wha sme of you think."


Not quey again. Can't even read this it hurts my eyes. Shame because I could probably offer you some good advice. Ah well. :)

mɑkɑnɑni USA, FL, United States 62774 posts
30th Mar '13

What are you, 12?

Mommy and Kalani +1 Due December 16; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florence, South Carolina 242 posts
status 30th Mar '13
Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" Not quey again. Can't even read this it hurts my eyes. Shame because I could probably offer you some good advice. Ah well. :)"


Im pretty sure you read it just made the q sound where there were qs instead of gs. But any advice qiven is taken into consideration. If you'd like to qive it, I'd love to read it.

Loretta West TTC#2 TTC since May 2013; 1 child; Auckland, New Zealand 4603 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:" Im pretty sure you read it just made the q sound where there were qs instead of gs. But any advice qiven is taken into consideration. If you'd like to qive it, I'd love to read it."


Dude. Stahp.

P Pickle Pants 98 kids; California 20522 posts
30th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Baby Kalani ❤:</b>" Im pretty sure you read it just made the q sound where there were qs instead of gs. But any advice qiven is taken into consideration. If you'd like to qive it, I'd love to read it."</blockquote>



My advice: QUIT USING Qs INSTEAD OF Gs!



Seriously. It's annoying and makes you look like a dumb tween. Even my mostly illiterate 15 year old niece types better.