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I feel horrible Avery 1 child; Arizona 2709 posts
30th Mar '13

I am gonna make this as short as possible. I broke up with Avery

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65275 posts
30th Mar '13

It's not fair to him.You should discuss this with him.

Avery 1 child; Arizona 2709 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting mαkαnαni:" It's not fair to him.You should discuss this with him."


he is 9 mo

vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
30th Mar '13

Honestly it sounds like he might be good for you both. If everyone in the situation is happy then that's all that matter. It doesn't matter how little time its been since you broke things off with your ex. Because miracles can happen whenever. Maybe this is your prince charming. :)

He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59296 posts
30th Mar '13

.... why did you tell your abusive ex about him? Why did you see your abusive ex again and put yourself in that situation?



I think it's important to be up front and honest with this person, if he is so great, then you can both take it slow and not rush into another relationship. Start as friends, and learn to be alone and respect yourself, first.

Avery 1 child; Arizona 2709 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting The Doctor:" .... why did you tell your abusive ex about him? Why did you see your abusive ex again and put yourself ... [snip!] ... both take it slow and not rush into another relationship. Start as friends, and learn to be alone and respect yourself, first."


We see each other when he comes to get Avery. I guess I just felt bad about it. And he asked if I was seeing anyone. Im not a very good liar :(. I keep telling him this and he is more than willing to take things slow but now im at that point where he is all I think about and want to be with all day. My son even says his name.

Avery 1 child; Arizona 2709 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting JDeee:" Honestly it sounds like he might be good for you both. If everyone in the situation is happy then that's ... [snip!] ... its been since you broke things off with your ex. Because miracles can happen whenever. Maybe this is your prince charming. :)"


Thank you. I honestly feel like it

He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59296 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting Avery
vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
30th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Avery

Avery 1 child; Arizona 2709 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting The Doctor:" IMO, feeling bad about it and having to confess to your abusive ex is (IMO) a sign that you are not ... [snip!] ... chances are you're going to fall into the same unhealthy patterns. JMO, and I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be an a*****e here."


Your not an a*****e. I need every opinion someone can give me. You are right I think I am terrified to be alone. I told the guy I am seeing now that I have some issues I need to work through and learn to be happy with myself before I can give him all of me. I just don

Avery 1 child; Arizona 2709 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting JDeee:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Avery
He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59296 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting Avery
мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65275 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting Avery
He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59296 posts
30th Mar '13
Quoting Avery
vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
30th Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Avery