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6th BFN... Mom[Oh] 2 kids; Fort Wayne, IN, United States 608 posts
31st Mar '13

This month I have really abbused pregnancy tests...
But its about 4 days before AF and tonight I got my 6th BFN :(
And I keep crying. Its only our first month of TTC and I'm depressed. I knew I shouldn't have gotten too excited. Should I hold onto the hope of the 4 days that are left until AF?

Avian's Mommy!! 1 child; Levelland, Texas 3872 posts
31st Mar '13

Aww.. im sorry your so disappointed but just keep your head up. Im not ttc but Im 13 days and going crazy about a week ago i tested and got brn but idk about now.. its crazy.. just keep your head up and try to think positive.. if not this month next and the next..

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
31st Mar '13
Quoting Mama♡MoriYah :]:" This month I have really abbused pregnancy tests... But its about 4 days before AF and tonight I got ... [snip!] ... I'm depressed. I knew I shouldn't have gotten too excited. Should I hold onto the hope of the 4 days that are left until AF?"


You've been TTCing not even for a month. Chill.

Mom[Oh] 2 kids; Fort Wayne, IN, United States 608 posts
31st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Avian's Mommy!!:</b>" Aww.. im sorry your so disappointed but just keep your head up. Im not ttc but Im 13 days and going crazy ... [snip!] ... brn but idk about now.. its crazy.. just keep your head up and try to think positive.. if not this month next and the next.."</blockquote>




Thanks. That's what my DH says.
I really wanted to try to fit a baby into this year.
My DD is 11 months and I want her sibling to be as close in age as possible. But I think next month I'm not going to test at all until a missed period.

California Dreaming ♡ TTC since Jan 2014; 3 kids; The Valley, CA, United States 2507 posts
status 31st Mar '13

Sorry you are so upset. You just started TTC try to relax and enjoy it..

lise ♡ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cold, Ol, Canada 62777 posts
status 31st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" You've been TTCing not even for a month. Chill."</blockquote>



:!:



It is stressful, upsetting, every emotion. But you gotta remember it can take a year for the average couple to conceive.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
31st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" You've been TTCing not even for a month. Chill."</blockquote>




:!:

Mom[Oh] 2 kids; Fort Wayne, IN, United States 608 posts
31st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel's (Army) Wifey:</b>" Sorry you are so upset. You just started TTC try to relax and enjoy it.."</blockquote>




I had "a feeling" I was going to be pregnant this month...I was wrong and was a little let down.

Squeaky McGee 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 65038 posts
status 31st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℓise ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Back to Noob Status:</b>" You've been TTCing not even for a ... [snip!] ... :!: It is stressful, upsetting, every emotion. But you gotta remember it can take a year for the average couple to conceive."</blockquote>



This!



It's discouraging, even after the first month or two, and unfortunately it seems to take longer when you're trying as opposed to not trying.

Mom[Oh] 2 kids; Fort Wayne, IN, United States 608 posts
31st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee [22 wks]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℓise ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... even after the first month or two, and unfortunately it seems to take longer when you're trying as opposed to not trying."</blockquote>




Yea. I know I should "chill" as some might say but I just really was looking forward to seeing two lines again :\ and I've been wanting to start TTC for a while but talk D into it took some time. Hey Sef Just so ya know I don't want anyone to know we are TTC ok? Our secret! :)

California Dreaming ♡ TTC since Jan 2014; 3 kids; The Valley, CA, United States 2507 posts
status 31st Mar '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♡MoriYah :]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Angel's (Army) Wifey:</b>" Sorry you are so upset. You just ... [snip!] ... it.."</blockquote> I had "a feeling" I was going to be pregnant this month...I was wrong and was a little let down."</blockquote>




I understand, sorry hun.

Squeaky McGee 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 65038 posts
status 31st Mar '13
Quoting Mama♡MoriYah :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee [22 wks]:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... a while but talk D into it took some time. Hey Sef Just so ya know I don't want anyone to know we are TTC ok? Our secret! :)"


I know. I haven't said anything.

CircleK 1 child; 1 angel baby; Federal Way, WA, United States 10029 posts
31st Mar '13

Why don't you wait until after you've missed a period to test. If you test early and get a period, it's just a waist of money and a heartache. Stress can hinder pregnancy.