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Torn angelica j 1 child; 1 angel baby; Waukesha, Wisconsin 414 posts
1st Apr '13

I know I made the right choice for my situation at this time but some days I just sit there ad wish I still have my baby in my tummy. I fight with myself all the time. Ill never know the gender or hair/eye color whose nose and all that. Ill never know what my baby could've done for the world. Or at least my world.

Rain (aka Mama) 3 kids; Monroe, Georgia 6465 posts
1st Apr '13

*hugs*



lamr - 02-08-13-21 2 kids; Crazytown, ON, Canada 5922 posts
1st Apr '13

Sending you lots of love!

peekin3 Racine, Wisconsin 289 posts
1st Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" I know I made the right choice for my situation at this time but some days I just sit there ad wish I ... [snip!] ... or hair/eye color whose nose and all that. Ill never know what my baby could've done for the world. Or at least my world."</blockquote>




Don't do that to yourself. You can't let yourself sit and dwell on it. You made a hard choice during a hard time. You will drive yourself insane playing the "what if" game. Just know you did what you thought you had to do. And there's no going back. and remember, the morning phase is normal. I have friends who went through the same thing.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
1st Apr '13

<3 Im sorry honey. I do that from time to time, seeing both of my sons and my exes 2 kids.... But it will get better with time and it wont be all of the time.

Preggo Bear Claw Due April 12; 64 kids; Minnesota 645 posts
1st Apr '13

I'm sorry sweetie ... *hugs*

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
1st Apr '13

I'm sorry :(
What's done is done.. no point in dwelling on the what if's and could have's. XO

Two Princesses 2 kids; San Pedro, CA, United States 7196 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting peekin3:" <blockquote><b>Quoting angelica j:</b>" I know I made the right choice for my situation ... [snip!] ... to do. And there's no going back. and remember, the morning phase is normal. I have friends who went through the same thing."


This
Best of luck OP.