Sugarhiccup LLC 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2820 postsstatus 3rd Apr
Based on my experience I would tell them now. This way they can choose to accept it or part ways. You'll have time to get over a negative response on before the babies arrival. My dh and I didn't and the outcome was "unforgettable" if you know what I mean. They never met me prior to our child's birth.