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Choosing between 2 guys? SuperSecret123 Japan 220 posts
2nd Apr '13

Let me start off by saying, I can be slutty at times lol...now that we've got that out of the way here's the dilemma...I'm newly single but the relationship had problems for many years which included cheating, lying, and a few separations before this one so I don't feel weird moving on so quickly....it feels natural...



anyways, I'm interested in 2 guys..I work with both of them...one is so freaking hot, everybody loves him, he's always down for a good time, life of the party, tall, fit, attractive, somewhat of a bad boy but ultimately not as he is a responsible adult lol..and he definitely wants to have sex with me and I literally melt anywhere near this man...he's not looking for a relationship..



second guy, very tall..like 6'6, extremely fit, hits the gym every day, laid back dude and everybody at work likes him..he's just a likeable guy all around and I am attracted to this guy, but I'm infatuated with the other guy even though guy number 2 is also a great choice...second guy would be more willing to settle down and devote more time to me if I wanted that...



who do I pick to give my time to? I like them both, one is a safer option but also an attractive option...one is more risky but my god is he hot..I want them both but I know if I try to have my way with both, ultimately nobody will want me lol....

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16429 posts
2nd Apr '13

Depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking to settle down, then go with number 2, if you want to have fun then go with number one :lol:

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
2nd Apr '13

I'd bang 1 for awhile then settle down with number 2.

ThatsAlotaNuts Australia 2360 posts
2nd Apr '13

i read this......and i pictured dean and sam.
haha.
i pick dean, even if its just for a little while....if worse come to worse sam is always a back up but in your case theyre not brothers so its not awkward hahaha.

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6268 posts
2nd Apr '13

It depends on what you want. Are you looking for a relationship or just a good time? Obviously the answer to that question will lead you to the right choice...

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
2nd Apr '13

Do not bite the hand that feeds you.



In other words stay away from both, you don't want that drama at work and you could actually lose your job because of it.

Jennybananna 2 kids; Gilbert, AZ, United States 25079 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" I'd bang 1 for awhile then settle down with number 2."

Yep pretty much.

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16429 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" Do not bite the hand that feeds you. In other words stay away from both, you don't want that drama at work and you could actually lose your job because of it."

I always say "Don't shit where you eat" for workplace romance :lol:

SuperSecret123 Japan 220 posts
2nd Apr '13

I don't know what I want lol...wait, yes I do..I want it all haha

castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 19437 posts
status 2nd Apr '13

Since half of your description was physical, I'd go for fun and not serious.



I wouldn't bother getting serious with someone who's best traits are that he is tall and fit, but that's me.

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
2nd Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LA REINA

SuperSecret123 Japan 220 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" Do not bite the hand that feeds you. In other words stay away from both, you don't want that drama at work and you could actually lose your job because of it."

I work in a place full of extremely successful, young and outgoing people and there are alot of people already banging...kinda gross I know but it's very common at my job haha

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16429 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LA REINA
SuperSecret123 Japan 220 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting pilot Jess:" Since half of your description was physical, I'd go for fun and not serious. I wouldn't both getting serious with someone who's best traits are that he is tall and fit, but that's me."


there's more, but ultimately I'm just horny so that's what I'm focusing on...both have amazing personalities, they're successful, one just appeals to me more physically

ℐαzmчn 2 kids; Somerset, Kentucky 12712 posts
2nd Apr '13
Quoting SuperSecret123:" there's more, but ultimately I'm just horny so that's what I'm focusing on...both have amazing personalities, they're successful, one just appeals to me more physically"


Well then you just answered your question right there lol. Sounds like you just want fun at the moment.