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kthx. Due January 14; Cleves, Ohio 66515 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Tazi Gibbs:" I really wish you would stop jumping at me and calling me a bad mom!!!!! I'm f**king done!! Happy?!?!?! ... [snip!] ... your children. This topic wasn't about the f**king sympathy or attention. It was about relating to others in my situation!!!!! "


Oh NOWWW you want to be addressed like a kid? NOW you want us to talk to you like a kid? No. You wanted to act like an adult, so will speak to you as an adult. Don't try and pull the 'oh I'm just a wittle baby, you can't speak to me that way.'




Suck it the f**k up. You can love your child as much as you want to, but honestly.... besides feeding him and clothing him, WHAT are you doing to actually financially raise your kid? You still live with your parents, either they pay for formula or you have WIC, they buy diapers, you don't have a car.. so they drive you to appointments. You go to school, so they're your babysitter OR they pay for day care.



At that age, your parents are raising your child.

kthx. Due January 14; Cleves, Ohio 66515 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" Agreed. I forgot about the whole cough syrup thing, I was ID'd buying Lilys nyquil last week! Its true ... [snip!] ... yet and she wants to close it in and get married and play house. And shes what.... a sophomore in high school? Pathetic."


I was so embarrassed. I needed cough syrup because I felt like I was dying :lol: SO and I went to the store and I totally spaced that they ID you for crap like that. And I didn't bring mine :oops: I'm 21! So SO had to show his. Durrr :lol:

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26783 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Dani:" Screen shot? :lol:"


Sure!



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FatEatingHeffer 15 kids; Hershey, Pennsylvania 26 posts
4th Apr '13
user banned Due September 18 (boy); 1 child; California 21617 posts
4th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tazi Gibbs:</b>" I really wish you would stop jumping at me and calling me a bad mom!!!!! I'm f**king done!! Happy?!?!?! ... [snip!] ... your children. This topic wasn't about the f**king sympathy or attention. It was about relating to others in my situation!!!!! "</blockquote>




1. No one called you a bad mom
2. You are throwing a temper tantrum like a damn 2 year old



Do you want people to take you seriously? If so you need to grow up. You are acting stupid. Your age shouldn't define you but right now you're making it that way. You want to be treated like a grown up its time to start acting like one instead of blowing everything out of proportion and throwing insults
.. Well like a 16 year old. Having a baby doesn't make you mature in the slightest. I suggest giving yourself a major attitude adjustment, bratty teenager time is over.

Mrs.Dani Due July 3; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Oxnard, California 10272 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" Sure! "


It was hard to read but I think I got the gist(SP?) of it.

kthx. Due January 14; Cleves, Ohio 66515 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Tazi Gibbs:" My parent is not raising my child! Yeah I have WIC...I have my own car...I take MY son to the appointments. ... [snip!] ... my own life with my son. All I wanted was to talk to some girls that have been or is in my situation....it's as simple as that."


You pay for necessities. WIC pays for 95% of your formula. You pay... what, $50 a month? In diapers and extra formula? Maybe an occasional outfit or toy? You do not live your own life. Your parents are the ones raising you (still) and your son. They pay for rent/mortgage, water, electricity, food, etc. Can you do that on your own? Can you pay $700 a month in rent? $400 a month in food (and that's buying cheap)? $100 a month in gas, $200 in electric, etc. No. No you cannot. You need your parents for that.




And you said you can't drive legally. So.... you're driving illegally with your son in the car? Great parenting.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26783 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Tazi Gibbs:" My parent is not raising my child! Yeah I have WIC...I have my own car...I take MY son to the appointments. ... [snip!] ... my own life with my son. All I wanted was to talk to some girls that have been or is in my situation....it's as simple as that."


Who paid for your car?
Who pays for your kids insurance?
Who pays for daycare when you are in school?
How many hours do you work, and where does your kid go while you are in school and work?
Who gets up with the kid? Who feeds the kid? Who buys the formula?



You say we are pathetic, honey, look in the mirror! You want to play like you have big girl panties on but once someone calls you out you revert back to being a high schooler. You ARE a high schooler, and you have no business having a child and worrying about a sex life when you are still in the mindset of a teenager. Grow up sweetie before you miss out on your childs life.

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Tazi Gibbs:" My parent is not raising my child! Yeah I have WIC...I have my own car...I take MY son to the appointments. ... [snip!] ... my own life with my son. All I wanted was to talk to some girls that have been or is in my situation....it's as simple as that."


Do you want to be treated like a kid, or like an adult? You can't have it both ways. And a lot of the "older" moms on here HAVE been in your situation. I had my first at 19. Having a child is not easy for anyone, it's probably the hardest job any of us will ever have.



We understand he is YOUR son, and you might be the one RAISING him, you aren't the one wholly PROVIDING for him. Your "side jobs" wouldn't pay all of your bills if you were out on your own, so you don't pay for the "necessities." You pay for what you can, which is admirable, but you can't say you pay for the necessities until you are paying rent, utilities, food, etc., ON TOP of diapers, wipes, clothes, and anything else WIC doesn't cover.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26783 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Dani:" It was hard to read but I think I got the gist(SP?) of it. "


I don't know why it wont load the size I want it to be.... but it said "
ARE YOU f**king KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT THE f**k DID I DO TO YOU TO LABEL ME AS A FUCKWAD?!?!?!
I WANTED TO TALK TO OTHER MOMS MY AGE AND ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU ARE f**king AT MY THROAT??????? WHAT THE f**k IS WRONG WITH YOU??!!??!!"




Then I said "Are you on medication? If not.... you may need some."

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
4th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" I was so embarrassed. I needed cough syrup because I felt like I was dying :lol: SO and I went to the ... [snip!] ... I totally spaced that they ID you for crap like that. And I didn't bring mine :oops: I'm 21! So SO had to show his. Durrr :lol:"</blockquote>



Da fuq? I've never been id'd for anything but booze, cigarettes, and spray paint. And I look about 14 and Arizona has a HUGE meth problem.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting kthx.:" You pay for necessities. WIC pays for 95% of your formula. You pay... what, $50 a month? In diapers ... [snip!] ... for that. And you said you can't drive legally. So.... you're driving illegally with your son in the car? Great parenting."


i wish i could have paid 700 a month when i had my son i paid 1500. a month for our condo... lol...

kthx. Due January 14; Cleves, Ohio 66515 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting T - 14 days:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" I was so embarrassed. I needed cough syrup because ... [snip!] ... never been id'd for anything but booze, cigarettes, and spray paint. And I look about 14 and Arizona has a HUGE meth problem."


Spray paint? Oh my lol. I've never heard of IDing for that.

kthx. Due January 14; Cleves, Ohio 66515 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting DeanJade&Mak's Mom:" i wish i could have paid 700 a month when i had my son i paid 1500. a month for our condo... lol... "


Daaaamn lol. Probably because you're in Colorado. I pay $690, and that includes water and internet/cable. And about $200 a month for electricity.

Mrs.Dani Due July 3; 1 child; 3 angel babies; Oxnard, California 10272 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" I don't know why it wont load the size I want it to be.... but it said " ARE YOU f**king KIDDING ME ... [snip!] ... MY THROAT??????? WHAT THE f**k IS WRONG WITH YOU??!!??!!" Then I said "Are you on medication? If not.... you may need some.""


Oh okay the only part I didn't understand was the :label me as a fuckwad" I was bale to see the rest...



What a crazy :lol: