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FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27767 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Dani:" Yeah I posted a picture of me and my son on here and some ladies told me they thought I was his sister ... [snip!] ... and that I look really young :oops: I think I knew you were young because I saw you post that in a thread like this before. "


Ive had tons of people think I was much younger than I was. When I started teaching, I was in a really unique school and to explain how unique would be a post in and of itself, lol. But when I first walked in, the kids were all NEW STUDENT! NEW STUDENT! And the teacher I worked with laughed and we were all "No.... Im your teacher!" I was out somewhere with Lily and we were trying to get one of those free sample things of some food. The person said "Oh no you two, you need to ask your parents." I looked at her in the eye and said "I AM her parent. I dont need to ask my mother if I could have a sample when Im well over the age of 18." The girl looked dumbfounded, lol.



Then one day I was on the bus and it was during school hours,I was on my way to college. This nice old lady talks to me about careers and stuff like that. I tell her about wanting to be a teacher and to me it seems like she got the idea Im in college. Then she says "Well hun if you want to be a teacher you better not ditch any more school, shouldnt you be in school right now?" I laughed and said "Well in an hour I will be at school. In college. I am about to graduate college!" She thought I was in high school!



When I go out to eat at a buffet they immediately think Im a kid.



It was funny as hell when we went to this amusement park thing by us and they had some family day where the kids were free but parents paid. We walk up with my parents and daughter and we asked for 3 admissions. They look at me and Lily and said "Oh no, 12 and under are free!" I sounded like an ass but loudly said "WHAT THE FUCK? I may be young looking but Im not THAT fucking young looking!" The dude thought Lily was my sister and I was 12.



I mean its great to not have wrinkles, grey hair, all that jazz, but it does suck to not have anyone believe you are out of high school when you TEACH high school!

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27767 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting PurpleBama582:" I think 20 is awfully optimistic. I'd say 18. "


You are right, she IS playing house after all. I'd love to know if she was using protection and when she moved in with her boy... because her mom is a fucking dumbass if she let her boyfriend move in and a pregnancy happened after that. Even still, a 16 year old shouldnt be playing house. She should focus on graduating, getting a job, and THEN play house if her relationship even survives that long.



Or if she survives that long without popping out another puppy.

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting kthx.:" Daaaamn lol. Probably because you're in Colorado. I pay $690, and that includes water and internet/cable. And about $200 a month for electricity."


girl im in los angeles cali... thats an extra 1000. a month just for the sunshine haha

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" Yup, like I said to her, she is drawing attention to herself and trying to flaunt around as if its cool ... [snip!] ... with her boyfriend and wanting to make her sex life better. I bet by 20 years old she will have popped out another child."


It feels like she thinks its great she's a teen mom because there are shows about them. Like its acceptable. My pink hair is more acceptable than her being a child so young. If I was her age, I'd be clinging to some 'older' mothers because they have alot more advice to give and would be of alot more help. You're absolutely right. She's clinging to her childhood while trying to be a mother at the same time. When I was pregnant, I realized that I needed to grow up and start dealing with things in an adult manner. And I did. She has no idea what she's in for and if she doesn't start acting like an adult, she won't be prepared to handle what's coming. As far as her posts go, sex should be the LAST thing on her mind. Even after she had a baby she should have put two and two together and figured out that sex is the reason she's in this position. She definitely shouldn't be asking for sex advice. I wouldn't give any type of sexual advice besides "Wait until you're older" to anyone under 18. This whole thing is sad, and there is a child mixed up in it and will be the one who winds up paying for it.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27767 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" It feels like she thinks its great she's a teen mom because there are shows about them. Like its acceptable. ... [snip!] ... anyone under 18. This whole thing is sad, and there is a child mixed up in it and will be the one who winds up paying for it."


EXACTLY! Most young moms here dont ask for sex advice, hell a lot of the adults dont really ask for it, but certainly the teens dont. She could learn from them and realize that just as you said, sex should be the last thing on her mind. I guess its hard not to think that way when you are playing house and living together at 16.... she will be knocked up soon enough. And will giggle like its "meant to be!" and think her dumbass boyfriend will stick by her side and be able to help out with everything and would NEVER leave her, right?



Reality will hit her soon.... I HOPE it hits her soon before she spawns another child.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" EXACTLY! Most young moms here dont ask for sex advice, hell a lot of the adults dont really ask for ... [snip!] ... and would NEVER leave her, right? Reality will hit her soon.... I HOPE it hits her soon before she spawns another child. "


Sex advice should be for people who need it. 16 isn't old enough to need sex. Hell, at 16 I daydreamed of my first kiss and my first date. Not how to improve my bedroom life because sex has gotten boring. The problem is she didn't want to learn from anyone. All she wanted were a bunch of young teen mothers to validate her feelings and choices. There are alot of people I know that were and are teen mothers and they have grown up so much since finding out about their pregnancies and have made a wonderful life for themselves. They put their childrens needs in front of their own and even though some of them wound up alone, they pushed through it. And if OP doesn't start to step up and grow up a bit, she's going to really fast. Heaven forbid her boyfriend thinks to himself "God, I'm only 16 and I have a kid. I'm too young for a child and for settling down with anyone!" Because let's face it, 16 IS too young to maturely settle down and have a family. They normally don't start maturing enough to want something serious until their mid to late 20s. Some young girls have this image in their head that he won't leave because she had his baby. That he will be there for them because he has to. Blah blah blah. Hormones are hormones.

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting kthx.:" What if I wanted to talk? :( I'm not a teen mom. DO YOU HATE ME?"



:lol:

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting kthx.:" Daaaamn lol. Probably because you're in Colorado. I pay $690, and that includes water and internet/cable. And about $200 a month for electricity."


She's in Cali, CO isn't that expensive. you could get a 1 bdrm for like... 600$ ? Cheaper in the more, er, ghetto parts :lol:

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20924 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting DeanJade&Mak's Mom:" girl im in los angeles cali... thats an extra 1000. a month just for the sunshine haha"


lmao

DeanJade&Mak's Mom 3 kids; Covina, CA, United States 8822 posts
4th Apr '13
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FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27767 posts
4th Apr '13

The crazy loon is sending me messages. Its cute!

PurpleBama582 52 kids; Dothan, Alabama 3875 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" The crazy loon is sending me messages. Its cute!"


Wow.

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" The crazy loon is sending me messages. Its cute!"


Post them!!! :twisted:

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27767 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" Post them!!! :twisted:"


K, her first message to me was:
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHAT THE FUCK DID I DO TO YOU TO LABEL ME AS A FUCKWAD?!?!?!
I WANTED TO TALK TO OTHER MOMS MY AGE AND ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU ARE FUCKING AT MY THROAT??????? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU??!!??!!




And I said: Are you on medication? If not.... you may need some.



She didn't answer and so I said "Whats wrong, can't answer my question?"



She then says "Is that seriously what you do in your free time? You just get that bored? So you go to the Teen Parenting Forums to bash young moms? You must be so proud...."



She then says "You've got me all figured out, huh? I bet you are just an expert on reading people, right? Well, you must be! You know every damn thing about me! Right??
Since I'm too young and dumb to be a good Mother...please, OH PLEASE tell me how it's done. You must be a WONDERFUL mother. I didn't even think to teach my kids how to judge people in a snap! I must be retarded. Oh, and I guess I forgot to to teach that it is an achievement to attack people who are a decade younger... Oh, and to make my kids believe that they are better than anyone else. I guess I'm just not on the right track... Please, please, please tell me how to be like you!!! Tell me all about your achievements in bashing younger mothers on the TEEN PARENTING part of the damn site. I can only hope that when I'm in my 30s I can be just like you!"



I then say "Oh shut the fuck up you batshit crazy loon. go do your homework!"



And she says "Oh, that's one hell of a comeback....and already done!!! Anything else?"



Medications. She needs them!

NeitherHereNorThere Due January 28 (boy); 4 kids; New York City, NY, Ireland 328 posts
6th Apr '13
Quoting ♥ brianna:" If you don't consider yourself a teenager, then why are teen moms the ONLY ones allowed to talk to you?"


heheheehehheeh ME-ow!