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yo moyo 1 child; Ishim, Russian Federation 1335 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Sara-D:" It's a bad sore throte. No worries I guess. Plenty of hot drinks. When my period got late, he asked ... [snip!] ... My final chance to get it all. If I survived it, I will let you know Thank u all. You really made me feel better. Love Sara"


I do want help- that kind of help that gives me the right to have my baby, stay in my home, and never go to jail for the crime of "loving" !
Well, nobody on here is a magician. You probably know that if you were born in a village you'd be stoned to death, not just go to jail, so you're lucky from that point of view.
I think the solution I offered is the only one that stands a fair chance of success.
You got pregnant knowing the situation you'd be faced with. You can continue to hope you bf takes pity on you and changes his mind or not, that's your choice, but if you want to take your life in your own hands you know what you have to do. But I hope he does for your sake though!

Sara-D Due November 30; Nakanoto, Japan 4 posts
4th Apr '13

It's legal to marry. Yet he has to make that choice.
If he says no, I will leave.



I'm not using the brotherhood as an excuse.
This is just an example:
http://m.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2013/mar/18/muslim-brotherhood-rejects-egyptian-womens-rights



Let me put it like this:
If you were a victim to Islamists for your whole life, would you then choose willingly to move to Saudi Arabia or Egypt where there is Islamic violence against women just because they don't have p***s?! I guess not.
I'm not looking for charity's help. You are mistaken.
I have never asked for money, food, or shelter not even when I had none for days.
I'm not against any opinion here. On the contrary.
I seek for opinions as long you don't judge !
I'm confused. No organized thought. No clear plan. I can't see what future hides for me nor where I will be next month. That's why I posted here I guess. I don't know.
If you think I don't deserve love, I promise you I don't deserve hate neither.




Peace.
Sara

yo moyo 1 child; Ishim, Russian Federation 1335 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Sara-D:" It's legal to marry. Yet he has to make that choice. If he says no, I will leave. I'm not using the ... [snip!] ... here I guess. I don't know. If you think I don't deserve love, I promise you I don't deserve hate neither. Peace. Sara"


You don't really need to post articles from UK newspapers, I came back from Egypt less than a month ago after living there for a long time.
My point is, nobody will harass you there and you could have a normal life, go to work, live, etc. I'm a single mom and I've done it, so....
Didn't he already say no though? So right now you're just waiting for him to change his mind?

Sofia's Mummy♥ 1 child; United Kingdom 7331 posts
4th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sara-D:</b>" * I wrote to a womens rights humanitarian group a year ago and I got no reply. It was when I was locked ... [snip!] ... though I'm not from there. I'm not paranoid :). They hunt Internet bloggers and twitter users and I don't want to be hunted :)"</blockquote>




Do that. Write to embassies, they will help you. The UK will help you. Asylum seekers can get council houses, benefits, jobs and healthcare here.

Simply, Mom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Upland, 11670 posts
4th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting momento mori:</b>" You don't really need to post articles from UK newspapers, I came back from Egypt less than a month ... [snip!] ... mom and I've done it, so.... Didn't he already say no though? So right now you're just waiting for him to change his mind? "</blockquote>




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op sounds no offense like a bunch of excuses to not take our suggestions. I highly doubt he will choose to save u when he already told you his decision. I am just being honest. You need to leave before you start to show so I sincerely hope you choose Egyot like the others suggested

Amelia [26 wks Boy!] Due July 20; 4 angel babies; Tallahassee, Florida 14362 posts
status 4th Apr '13

If leaving the country is what you decide to do maybe this organization can help. Good luck OP.
http://www.unhcr.org/pages/49c3646cd4.html

girlnextdoor California 14 posts
4th Apr '13

Sara, I am so sorry you are facing this! Here are a couple of ideas that may be helpful. First, a pro-life organization in Egypt...Middle East Focus on the Family; http://www.focusonthefamily.me/english/default.aspx?cat=0 also check out Amnesty International for Middle East and North Africa; http://www.amnesty.org/en/region/middle-east-and-north-africa I am praying for you, friend. Please let us know how you are doing.