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Mari-C 18 kids; Nebraska 3695 posts
4th Apr '13

Knowing me, if I were ever in the same room/place with them, I'd point out her tatoo and coyly ask her about it...I don't think I could be the one to tell him directly. She's such a shitty individual

BooBee 2 kids; Virginia 1612 posts
4th Apr '13

If you dont know him id stay out of it and cut ties with her completely so she doesnt think your couch is once she can crash on when he finds out.

user banned 33 kids; British Columbia 2986 posts
4th Apr '13

If you feel that you have to tell him, you might want to get some of the instagram pictures for proof. You should also wait until he gets back from being deployed so he isn't distracted over there :(

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting ♡ Internet Bitch:" If you feel that you have to tell him, you might want to get some of the instagram pictures for proof. You should also wait until he gets back from being deployed so he isn't distracted over there :("

Yes. That's good advice! I think you should tell him... I think all army wives turned sluts should be ratted out! and hogtied and burned in the middle of the street... Maybe not all that, but they should suffer for it, for real!

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22371 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting kacti:" Yes. That's good advice! I think you should tell him... I think all army wives turned sluts should be ... [snip!] ... ratted out! and hogtied and burned in the middle of the street... Maybe not all that, but they should suffer for it, for real!"


she has never even met the man

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
4th Apr '13

So? He needs to know. I would tell him. When he comes back. Right in front of that lying, cheating, GFN tramp.

Fhuck. 2 kids; North Carolina 3339 posts
4th Apr '13

This is just one of those shitty situations where you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. I'll feel guilty either way.
For now, I've decided not to tell him. He's two months from coming home, and even though I don't know him, I know it would absolutely crush him.

Crystallight 2 kids; 1065 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Fhuck.:" Long story short, I've been friends with a girl, we'll call her "Pam" for a few years now. We've never ... [snip!] ... out, but I feel so sorry for him. And if it were me, I would want to know. Please just give helpful advice. What would you do?"


id tell him

Cassifrass Peters Due September 28 (girl); Japan 121 posts
15th Apr '13

Does she have a facebook? get one of her instagram and edit it for her, make it cute, post it to facebook and say "I liked this picture so much that I thought I would edit it for you" then maybe all of his family/friend ect will see it.

Cassifrass Peters Due September 28 (girl); Japan 121 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Cassifrass Peters:" Does she have a facebook? get one of her instagram and edit it for her, make it cute, post it to facebook ... [snip!] ... say "I liked this picture so much that I thought I would edit it for you" then maybe all of his family/friend ect will see it. "

Or something in that nature.