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Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
4th Apr '13

How many parents bath with their kids all the time and no one sees anything wrong with it. If it was a grandmother with her grad son no one would think twice. I highly doubt it was anything other than an innocent bath. Most pedophiles don't exactly advertise their activities to family let alone allow it to be put on the internet.

vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:" I mean obviously the family didn't feel they did anything wrong, so posting the pic shouldn't have been a big deal, so they shared it. "


Exactly. That's why I think society is at fault for making this man seem like a dirty old pervert and dragging his name through the mud.

BRowell 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Bristol, TN, United States 3691 posts
4th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brookie99:</b>" How many parents bath with their kids all the time and no one sees anything wrong with it. If it was ... [snip!] ... innocent bath. Most pedophiles don't exactly advertise their activities to family let alone allow it to be put on the internet."</blockquote>




This! If there was anything going on, especially with him being a paster, I just don't think they would've posted it.

Big D! Due October 7 (boy); 1 child; Escondido, California 9518 posts
4th Apr '13

I don't see a problem with it even if they aren't wearing swim trunks.

vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Brookie99:" How many parents bath with their kids all the time and no one sees anything wrong with it. If it was ... [snip!] ... innocent bath. Most pedophiles don't exactly advertise their activities to family let alone allow it to be put on the internet."


Exactly! Thank you. Glad to see I'm not the only person who feels this way. Although I think we are the minority.

vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Big D!:" I don't see a problem with it even if they aren't wearing swim trunks. "

While I would never personally do it myself, I don't either.

vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Just Ames:" I don't think my Mother (or myself) would want my Son to bathe with her. And I mean, it said he was already in the bath so what did he do? Get out and put swim shorts on? "


Thats what they said. That she knew he was in the bath and wanted to get in. So they put on their swimsuits.

Big D! Due October 7 (boy); 1 child; Escondido, California 9518 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Just Ames:" I don't think my Mother (or myself) would want my Son to bathe with her. And I mean, it said he was already in the bath so what did he do? Get out and put swim shorts on? "

I doubt he did. She probably just hopped in.

Binky ♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 6236 posts
4th Apr '13

I don't see a problem with it.
My DS and DD take showers with my dad and mom, its just a body. Its other people that try to sexualize it and make it into something its not. My kids are comfortable bathing with them and if they told me they didn't want to I wouldn't force it. Majority of the time they just jump in with them without warning lol.

Big D! Due October 7 (boy); 1 child; Escondido, California 9518 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting JDeee:" While I would never personally do it myself, I don't either."

I only have a son and he has had a shower with grandma, great grandma, and great grandpa, aunt, my boyfriend, mom, dad. Families do lots of things together and I don't see bathing together as something wrong. If I had a daughter I don't think I would feel differently about her bathing with family members.

Caydence's mommy 4/4/09 32 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 8472 posts
4th Apr '13

Personally Im not ok with cobathing at all so I see where people could look at that pic and think something was wrong or nasty about it. I personally would never be ok with my daughter bathing with her grandfather or even her father for that matter. But this is just one of those things that I think should fall under the not my child/family not my choice categories. If this little girls parents where ok with it and the grandfather was ok with it then who are we to tell them that they are wrong?

Big D! Due October 7 (boy); 1 child; Escondido, California 9518 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Binky ♡:" I don't see a problem with it. My DS and DD take showers with my dad and mom, its just a body. Its other ... [snip!] ... if they told me they didn't want to I wouldn't force it. Majority of the time they just jump in with them without warning lol."

My son does this! lol If you're bathing at my house prepare for him to invite himself in.

vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Binky ♡:" I don't see a problem with it. My DS and DD take showers with my dad and mom, its just a body. Its other ... [snip!] ... if they told me they didn't want to I wouldn't force it. Majority of the time they just jump in with them without warning lol."


Awh..that's cute that they're all so close. And you're right it is just a body. Nothing bad about it, until people decide to sexualize such a simple act. Not like a child really knows or cares about male/female body parts. Or what they're for. I think its more like 'Hey! Bubbles! Water! Yippie.'

Momma's Little Man-Keith 1 child; Ohio 347 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting Brookie99:" How many parents bath with their kids all the time and no one sees anything wrong with it. If it was ... [snip!] ... innocent bath. Most pedophiles don't exactly advertise their activities to family let alone allow it to be put on the internet."


im sorry but i would feel the same way if my sons grandmoter wanted to bathe with him. now days you never know what is going on in someones head.
only person i would feel comfortable bathing with him would be me and by the time he is 4(like the little girl) i wouldnt even feel comfortable then. Age plays a factor in this.
Like i said with what goes on now days you never know what could be going on

Big D! Due October 7 (boy); 1 child; Escondido, California 9518 posts
4th Apr '13
Quoting JDeee:" Awh..that's cute that they're all so close. And you're right it is just a body. Nothing bad about it, ... [snip!] ... really knows or cares about male/female body parts. Or what they're for. I think its more like 'Hey! Bubbles! Water! Yippie.'"

Even when they do ask or point it out, a simple "boys are different than girls" will suffice. That's what we tell the preschoolers when they are all going to the bathroom.