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K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Seriously! Because I know when I had my abortion pill and all of the tissue was coming out, I didnt ... [snip!] ... see if I could see any of it because I wanted to see my baby. And the whole time I did I was crying. b***h needs to stfu. "

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NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Seriously! Because I know when I had my abortion pill and all of the tissue was coming out, I didnt ... [snip!] ... see if I could see any of it because I wanted to see my baby. And the whole time I did I was crying. b***h needs to stfu. "


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Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Iggy Azalea:</b>" Some of the comments on here are so unbelievably ... [snip!] ... anyone can grieve on something they planned to terminate to then call them their angel babies. Um okay. Excuse my ignorance."

I want to clarify real quick that I am by no means comparing a baby/fetus to a dog but I haven't had an abortion so I'm using a situation I can relate to.



My in-laws planned to put their dog down that they had for like 13 years because he was sick. We all knew the outcome of the decision, we planned the date, his grave, everything. It was all planned and we all still grieved because it was a horrible decision to have to make. Again, I'm not comparing a baby to a dog (I can't even imagine the pain you ladies have gone through when you made the decision) but my point is people have to make hard decisions every day, plan ahead, what have you. It doesn't make the decision any easier.

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting kacti:" <3"

I read your story a few pages back and just want to say you are an amazing woman and incredibly strong. <3 I'm sending lots of hugs through my computer to you :)

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting Madi's*Mama:" I read your story a few pages back and just want to say you are an amazing woman and incredibly strong. <3 I'm sending lots of hugs through my computer to you :) "


Thank you.

user banned New York 15996 posts
5th Apr '13

For the people who are anti abortion most of you had a respectul opinion and I just wanna say thank you. <3

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
5th Apr '13
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Gone 12345.... 2 kids; Houston, Texas 16000 posts
5th Apr '13

I've had two abortions.. one was twins.. both times I felt awful but I did what I thought was best... abortion is a tough decision to make.. especially when others judge you, or you have protestors picketing and telling you not to murder your baby...I absolutely grieved but I wouldn't of made any other decision

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19983 posts
5th Apr '13

I'll admit I only read the first 8 pages so I might have missed something ... BUT ... why is everyone assuming that all abortions are performed due to 'mistakes', life situations, or rape? So women who abort molar, ectopic, or babies with severe deformities (developing without heads, brains, hearts, livers, abdomens ... etc), aren't allowed to grieve?

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting Destiel:" I'll admit I only read the first 8 pages so I might have missed something ... BUT ... why is everyone ... [snip!] ... babies with severe deformities (developing without heads, brains, hearts, livers, abdomens ... etc), aren't allowed to grieve?"

Nope. Since, you know, she chose to terminate the pregnancy.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26123 posts
6th Apr '13

I absolutely believe they have a right to grieve. I had an abortion, and I mourned the loss of that baby. I had to do it though. To say I didnt have the right because I chose to have an abortion is asinine.

1inpink2inblue Switzerland 11952 posts
6th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting kacti:</b>" I said I didn't want to go into details. But since you asked... Yes I was 13, my father was not apart ... [snip!] ... job, and moved 2000 miles away from all of the shit in my past. It still f**ks me up sometimes. Yea... you need to walk a mile."</blockquote>




I'm so sorry you went through that hun. My aunt went through something similar except she was 12 her father was the bd and her mother and aunt took her to get an illegal abortion. Her story and stories like yours are why I'm pro-choice. My dh is hard core pro-life and we argue the topic a lot. He sees things as black and white right and wrong because he was very sheltered as a child. I grew up hearing these kinds of things knowing that somethings are neither black nor white but grey and sometimes we must choose betten the lesser of two evils so to speak. My grandmother left her husband after that and my mom said she understood why she waited so long. She lived in a car for months with little to no food for her kids. Then lived in a tiny shack with no running water or heat. Had her kid been younger they might not have survived.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26123 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting Grandma.:" Ive had losses, but I found that when I was younger, I was pro-life and angry at others for their ... [snip!] ... or thoughts.... because of my own inability to deal with my pain and grief. Now that I'm older and wiser, I'm pro-choice."


I feel like such a dickface for the brief period in time I was pro life. Seriously, I wish I could rewind and never say the shit I'd say. Now I am pro choice all the way, and really think most pro lifers are absolute dick faces.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26123 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting Blair B:" I'm pro life so it's kind of a tough question for me. I can see grieving because they regret it but I ... [snip!] ... not be as sad as someone who has just lost a baby. And I do not think an aborted baby should be called an angel baby either."


It's a good thing that your opinions don't reflect the majority of the human population. Its really not logical to think one can't really regret or mourn their decision to abort because it was "they're choice to abort the baby." BTW, it's THEIR. To not think they could be just as sad as someone who had a miscarriage is really asinine.'



I had an abortion and I grieved. That night I took the first pill caused me to have 3 days of staying in the house with my boyfriend and crying, being held by him, and heart to heart talks. We made that decision because it was the best choice but it certainly did not lessen my pain just because we made that choice. In fact I was MORE upset than when I almost miscarried my daughter.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
8th Apr '13
Quoting Saffy the Dragon Slayer:" Nope. Since, you know, she chose to terminate the pregnancy."

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