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Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Madi's*Mama:</b>" I always say I personally could never go through ... [snip!] ... struggles that you have to overcome not choosing the easy way out. Js. I have my opinion and you are entitled to have yours."

I know nothing is 100%, that's why I don't even get the testing for down's or anything but if something came up at my gender scan or in my blood work that it was very likely my baby would be in constant pain I feel it would be very selfish of me to continue the pregnancy and make my baby suffer because there was a slim chance that the drs were wrong.

Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carissa Biron:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~GAGA ... [snip!] ... perfect. Dont get discourage. What about the successful adoption stories dont exclude those. They are reputable angencies fyi."

Even though there are successful, happy adoption stories, I think (just my thoughts because I haven't been through an adoption or abortion) carrying a child around for 9 months and then just handing them over would be WAY more painful then ended the pregnancy early on. I personal would choose abortion over adoption and it's my personal religious belief that abortion is an unforgivable sin.

user banned California 8675 posts
16th Apr '13

Sorry but is funny how people who are okay with abortion go on and issult people who doesnt agree with them and say how dumb, immature, stupid people is. Talking about being immatutre look how you all talking and expressing yourselves about the matter to me that isnt being mature. Lmao

Big D! Due October 7 (boy); 1 child; Escondido, California 9518 posts
16th Apr '13

On the adoption thing.. There are already 130000 children waiting to be adopted. If you feel that a woman shouldn't end a pregnancy that will be another child waiting for a family. I think the thousands of children who grow up unwanted and live hard lives are worse than a woman ending a pregnancy.

user banned California 8675 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Big D!:</b>" On the adoption thing.. There are already 130000 children waiting to be adopted. If you feel that a woman ... [snip!] ... family. I think the thousands of children who grow up unwanted and live hard lives are worse than a woman ending a pregnancy. "</blockquote>



So why is abortion better is it less painful for the baby to end its suffering before is born. Then cry everyday about it yes I think is fucked up when abortion is enforced instead of having to make that decision for yourself. But even with that been said no one can tell anyone what they can or cant cry about if they truly have true sincere emotions even regrets.

user banned New York 15996 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:</b>" Sorry but is funny how people who are okay with abortion go on and issult people who doesnt agree with ... [snip!] ... about being immatutre look how you all talking and expressing yourselves about the matter to me that isnt being mature. Lmao"</blockquote>




Why are you still in here? You're only in here to be a b***h and try to insukt and mock people. The only person really that I've seen.act immature is you and the other chick. There were plenty of other women in here with your same views but expressed them in respectful manner. And if people are being rude to you then IMO you deserved it because the way you're going about this isn't ok. I'm sure like 99.9% of the people in this thread could go with your pathetic input.

Big D! Due October 7 (boy); 1 child; Escondido, California 9518 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Big D!:</b>" On the adoption thing.. There are already 130000 ... [snip!] ... that been said no one can tell anyone what they can or cant cry about if they truly have true sincere emotions even regrets."

Because there is never a baby... the pregnancy ends. So yes, I feel that an abortion is better if that's what the woman has decided. 130000 children that are basically "unwanted" why add to that. I'm not sure what you mean about crying everyday about it. And I think everybody agrees that nobody can tell you what they can or can't cry about but we all have our own judgements about that.

user banned California 8675 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TigOl'Bitties:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:</b>" Sorry but is funny how people who are okay ... [snip!] ... the way you're going about this isn't ok. I'm sure like 99.9% of the people in this thread could go with your pathetic input."</blockquote>




Sorry but calling someone names regardless who they are or what they have to say is not been respectful. Lol I am here for the same reason you are no matter if we have different views on the topic. I dont care what any of you think of me.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36477 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting ~GAGA DRAMA~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Carissa Biron:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~GAGA ... [snip!] ... perfect. Dont get discourage. What about the successful adoption stories dont exclude those. They are reputable angencies fyi."


You are so arrogant and ignorant. There are more horrid stories about adoption than there are good stories. And for the animal thing, all 3 animals that I have seen that have been put down had no chance of a happy life or a better quality of life. 1. the rottie that we had stopped eating one day and didnt want to move or anything, he had to be put down that day because he had cancer that nobody detected and it was way to late for him. 2. the red dobie we had had to be put down because she had a growth on her elbow that had been removed once before but this time it got so big and they didnt want to remove it again because she just turned 12 and they thought she was getting too old. 3. the black dobie could not get up the stairs anymore. she couldnt gain anymore weight and her hair was falling out...



So yes it was right for them to be put down. And it was right for us to mourn them. You are too stupid to realize what women that have abortions go through...

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting TigOl'Bitties:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Ya I was dumbfounded when I was reading ... [snip!] ... animal can compare to my kids :)"</blockquote> You are so rude. You and the other chick need to quit mocking people."

Wait a minute how am I being rude??? I never called anyone names. This is D&D . Like I have said it depends on the situation about grieving. When a 13 year old is forced by family etc into an abortion, yes I can see her grieving. When a grown ass woman who is just sleeping around, not using protection gets an abortion then No I do not feel she has a right to grieve. Also I think its RUDE to compare abortion to putting down an animal! Did I go and start attacking those who think so? NO! GAGA Drama is right! It's seems like it's ok for those who are all for abortion to call names etc, but holy shit for those who are against it. Like I said my children are not animals in my eyes, however if others want to compare say their children are just like animals then so be it.

user banned New York 15996 posts
17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Wait a minute how am I being rude??? I never called anyone names. This is D&D . Like I have said ... [snip!] ... children are not animals in my eyes, however if others want to compare say their children are just like animals then so be it."</blockquote>



Then act like its D&D and quit being RUDE by mocking people. You're not in the mind of a person who has had an abortion. Many people consider their pets as their children so yes it may be just as hard to put down an animal.

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting TigOl'Bitties:" <blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Wait a minute how am I being rude??? ... [snip!] ... who has had an abortion. Many people consider their pets as their children so yes it may be justbas hard to put down an animal."


Exactly. Sure not everyone values all lives the same but I know if I were to have to put down my cat (and we almost had to a few weeks ago because he was REALLY sick) I would be devastated. It would be like losing one of my children. I honestly love him that much.
So yes.. they are comparable.

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6263 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:" Wait a minute how am I being rude??? I never called anyone names. This is D&D . Like I have said ... [snip!] ... children are not animals in my eyes, however if others want to compare say their children are just like animals then so be it."


Since when is grief a choice? Pretty sure if it was no one would choose it.

user banned California 8675 posts
17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" You are so arrogant and ignorant. There are more horrid stories about adoption than there are good stories. ... [snip!] ... be put down. And it was right for us to mourn them. You are too stupid to realize what women that have abortions go through... "</blockquote>




Wtf slow the f**k down who said you couldnt grieve about your dogs, are you missing something here better yet are you misunderstanding something. What is wrong with you in calling me names I know that you are angry because I am not agreeing with you but learn how to talk without calling people names. Geesh you are the one sounding arrogant and ignorant for comparing those things. A baby is not an animal I repeat a baby is not a dog. :roll:

user banned California 8675 posts
17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TigOl'Bitties:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting mamaluvsher4babies:</b>" Wait a minute how am I being rude??? ... [snip!] ... who has had an abortion. Many people consider their pets as their children so yes it may be just as hard to put down an animal."</blockquote>




Oh stfu with your mocking shit. If people realized that babies are not animals then I dont think they would be so quick to abort but now that you put it that way that people consider their pets as their children maybe bevause they vant tell the difference. Lmao.