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Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
5th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sneakthief:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... asking how many women cheated on their SO. A lot said they did so they are automatically bad mothers and terrible role models?"</blockquote>



IMO, if they had children involved in the relationship, absolutely. Our children model their idea of acceptable relationship behavior after the relationships their parents are in. Knowingly damaging the relationship that you have with a child's parent just to get your rocks off, yes, I would say that makes someone a bad parent because they are setting a horrible example of what a loving relationship should be for no reason than their own selfishness.

BooBee 2 kids; Virginia 1607 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" I got the impression from her post that hes not the bio dad."


Ummm THIS *!!!!!!!!!*

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
5th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sneakthief:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sneakthief:</b>" ... [snip!] ... because they are setting a horrible example of what a loving relationship should be for no reason than their own selfishness."</blockquote>




Yes but he clearly wasn't flaunting his indiscretion if it took her this long to figure it out.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
5th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sneakthief:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... Yes but he clearly wasn't flaunting his indiscretion if it took her this long to figure it out."</blockquote>




I don't see how morality stops existing just because no one's looking.

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" I got the impression from her post that hes not the bio dad."


hes not. he kissed the girl no sex.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 119104 posts
status 5th Apr '13
Quoting Secret Service:" hes not. he kissed the girl no sex. "


Oh, well why'd he do that?

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting ⚓ Sarah ⚓:" Oh, well why'd he do that?"


he said he doesnt know. That hes an idiot and makes bad decissions sometimes and he doesnt even know why. Last night he had got the obvious impression from me that I thought he was gunna get back with his ex. He said to me. What do you think Im doing or gunna do? Get back with her? do I look retarted? I would never so please dont think that. Then I asked well then what was the point did he get anything out it? all he did was shake his head and say nothing
at all

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
5th Apr '13

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O ♥ G 2 kids; Pride, Louisiana 10723 posts
5th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Pretender:</b>" Nonono- HE is blaming YOU for having a bad reaction to HIM PUTTING HIS c**k in another girl? He was ... [snip!] ... trying to put blame on you for it ending so he doesn't feel guilt. DON'T TAKE HIM BACK! Every woman is too good for that shit"</blockquote>




I agree completely. f**k him. I would punch my SO in the face if he said he needed time after HE CHEATED.



Move on he sounds like a f**king prick.

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" he said he doesnt know. That hes an idiot ... [snip!] ... between this and "honesty". I would sit down and talk with him about things and try to figure out why he's acting this way."


they only dated for a few months. He admitts that he misses her at times but he will never be with her again

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
5th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" they only dated for a few months. He admitts that he misses her at times but he will never be with her again"</blockquote>




I'm bging tipsy, forgive me, but is the girl he kissed the ex he was talking about before or no?

Secret Service Texas 742 posts
5th Apr '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" they only dated for a few months. He admitts ... [snip!] ... again"</blockquote> I'm bging tipsy, forgive me, but is the girl he kissed the ex he was talking about before or no?"


yep

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
5th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" yep"</blockquote>




Honestly, cut ties and move on. Honestly , if be done.

user banned Vancouver, British Columbia 5643 posts
5th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" yep"</blockquote>




As long at he stopped talking to her 100% I wouldn't just get rid of him. IMO at least he just kisses her. If he did anything more then I would dump him.

lov'n Morgan 17 kids; Hickory, North Carolina 2355 posts
6th Apr '13
Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Secret Service:</b>" yep"</blockquote> As long at ... [snip!] ... to her 100% I wouldn't just get rid of him. IMO at least he just kisses her. If he did anything more then I would dump him."


The thing that sticks out to me is he says he makes bad decisions SOMETIMES, not just I made a bad decision that night...I would be iffy