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deleted boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
6th Apr '13

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~*~Bri~*~ Due July 25 (twins); 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Cañon City, Colorado 786 posts
6th Apr '13
Quoting bugs mommy☮:" Sooooo. in june I filed and got granted a restraining order against my sons dad .. in November i had ... [snip!] ... to have his social for anything and he won't let me have it... so i have no access to insurance for him. STRESSSSS BALLquote"


why did you have to file anything? was he not letting you leave. I went threw the same bs with my sons father and got full custody and he got visitation judge said all i had to do was give him my new address and then i could leave the state. he now gets the kids over summer



oh and since he wont give you the ss# go to the ss office and file for a lost social card, bring your court papers to

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
6th Apr '13
Quoting ~*~Bri~*~:" why did you have to file anything? was he not letting you leave. I went threw the same bs with my sons ... [snip!] ... judge said all i had to do was give him my new address and then i could leave the state. he now gets the kids over summer"


our other court agreement says i can't leave CA
i do have full custody already...



so i filed for a visitation modification & move away

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
6th Apr '13
Quoting ~*~Bri~*~:" why did you have to file anything? was he not letting you leave. I went threw the same bs with my sons ... [snip!] ... summer oh and since he wont give you the ss# go to the ss office and file for a lost social card, bring your court papers to"


he won't give me HIS social... i don't need my sons, i need the providers

~*~Bri~*~ Due July 25 (twins); 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Cañon City, Colorado 786 posts
6th Apr '13

my bad read that wrong

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7275 posts
6th Apr '13

I'm sorry. Ive been going to court over cs fod the last 2years & they keep giving him extensions. So when do you have to go to court again

BABY MAKES TWO Due September 16 (boy); Australia 193 posts
6th Apr '13

ok this just freaking pisses me off why is it that the courts are always on the side of the arseholes...they can see he is a dick cause lets face it ya can't miss it and let they give in to them. Have you tried telling them that you are scared for your's and your child's life? It worked for my friends sister whose kids dad was an a-hole

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting M walls:" I'm sorry. Ive been going to court over cs fod the last 2years & they keep giving him extensions. So when do you have to go to court again"

we have court Wednesday
my main things i HAVE to move because my mom is selling her house

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting Tasha Lee88:" ok this just freaking pisses me off why is it that the courts are always on the side of the arseholes...they ... [snip!] ... telling them that you are scared for your's and your child's life? It worked for my friends sister whose kids dad was an a-hole"


im not scared for my life.
i am scared for the emotional abuse he has on my son and i

BABY MAKES TWO Due September 16 (boy); Australia 193 posts
7th Apr '13

I know but if you say that they might be more likely to let you leave.

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting Tasha Lee88:" I know but if you say that they might be more likely to let you leave. "


im not really the type of person to lie bout that



i want him to be able to see his father
so that wouldn't make sense anyways



his dad will still have visitation .. just changing when that is

BABY MAKES TWO Due September 16 (boy); Australia 193 posts
7th Apr '13

Oh sorry I didn't know you still wanted him involved. My friends sister didn't want him involved which was why she did that. Well I guess that won't work then. Well just keep pushing and tell them you need to otherwise you'll be homeless.

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7275 posts
7th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tasha Lee88:</b>" I know but if you say that they might be more likely to let you leave. "</blockquote>




Ok I'm sorry but that's a shitty thing to lie about. No matter how much of an a*****e he is, he shouldn't be accused of something like that. My SO's ex wife say that she was scared for their lives & that she suspected abuse just because she wants her new husband to play daddy. Well now he pays cs yet she won't let him talk to the kids at all & when she does they're not allowed to call him dad. That's fucked up & karma is a b***h so she'll get hers someday

JessicaMatlock:) Due May 7 (boy); 1 child; Modesto, California 1337 posts
7th Apr '13

go to his work hr department with the court paperwork and tell them hes refusing to give you the health insurance info. it might work

boringwife 1 child; Highlands Ranch, CO, United States 7035 posts
7th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting JessicaMatlock:):</b>" go to his work hr department with the court paperwork and tell them hes refusing to give you the health insurance info. it might work"</blockquote>




that's a good idea. but he works for the entertainment industry so he doesn't really hve an employer... only a union?