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Seriously how can anyone be such a f**king POS? Caydence's mommy 4/4/09 32 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 8436 posts
7th Apr '13

So last September my SIL had her children taken by CPS because she was the VICTIM of domestic violence. For the longest time she tried to stay out here and get her kids back. She went to all of the classes she was supposed to, passed all of her drug tests, and did everything she was told to do. All the while my brother wasnt doing shit to get his kids back or even to help his wife get their kids back. So my SIL went to court out here in Jan (at this point my brother had already left state pretty much abandoning his wife and children) thinking she was getting her kids back just to be told she had less then 15 days to go back home or they where going to place her children with my brother's family out there. Now mind you my brother's entire family out there aint nothing but a bunch of dug addicts who cant keep their own f**king kids to save their lives. So her cousin out here bought here a bus ticket to go back home. Upon returning home she checked in with the OCS office out there enrolled in more classes, got a job, a new house, and a new car all in hopes of getting her kids home. Mean while my brother still refuses to do a damn thing. All this time my SIL has been busting her ass to get her kids back just to find out that the only reason her kids arent home yet is because my brother isnt doing what he is supposed to. And the real kicker is he is supposed to be here because he has court tomorrow over his kids and they told him that since they have moved his court date three times already if he misses this one chances are he will lose his right to the girls. Not only that but the caseworker set up a visitation for them to see the kids because my brother hasnt seen the kids since before they where taken (he was in jail for domestic when they got taken) and his wife hasnt seen them since she left state. His excuse is well I have work so they cant hold it against me even though his boss gave him time off to come down for court and even though he knows that if he doesnt go to court it could stop his wife from getting her kids back. I dont see how he can claim to love his kids so f**king much but he cant even get off his ass and do something to get them back. Honestly this shit makes me disgusted to have to admit the fact that I share the same blood as such a low life POS parent.

izzy+Ethan 2 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 4056 posts
7th Apr '13

Why can't they just give the kids to the mom and put a restraining order on the father till he straightens up ? That's really unfair to the mother especially if she's working so hard to get them back

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18064 posts
7th Apr '13

I'd file for divorce and try to get them back on my own

Caydence's mommy 4/4/09 32 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 8436 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting izzy+Ethan:" Why can't they just give the kids to the mom and put a restraining order on the father till he straightens up ? That's really unfair to the mother especially if she's working so hard to get them back"


Because her caseworker is a f**king b***h and flat out told her that since their children where removed once before (because my brother was using drugs) that she doesnt deserve to get her kids back. So the caseworker has done everything in her power to stop the kids from being placed back with their mother even though both times the children where removed it was because of something my brother did not his wife. Im trying to convince her now to just say f**k him and make the trip to come see her kids anyways since she already has the money for the tip put back.

izzy+Ethan 2 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 4056 posts
7th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:</b>" Because her caseworker is a f**king b***h and flat out told her that since their children where removed ... [snip!] ... now to just say f**k him and make the trip to come see her kids anyways since she already has the money for the tip put back."</blockquote>



Can she ask for a different case worker?

Caydence's mommy 4/4/09 32 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 8436 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" I'd file for divorce and try to get them back on my own"


She talked to her caseworker about doing that but the caseworker said that without my brother's income she doesnt make enough to support her kids on her own so she wouldnt get them back. Even saying all that the caseworker has been trying to push my SIL into divorcing him since this whole thing started. Besides all that she still loves his dumb ass and every time she has told him she want a divorce he threatens suicide and she feels bad for him and starts to blame herself for all his f**k ups. I swear 90% of the time he has her convinced that everything he does wrong is somehow her fault. I just talked to her earlier and told her flat out he has put her in the position where she now has to chose between him and her kids and I get that that isnt fair to her but its a choice she has to make.

how khuntastik 4 kids; California 1273 posts
7th Apr '13

i am going through something similar as your sil, but am just now going through the courts. they coached my oldest(3.5) to say my so hit her and are trying to say i neglected them and failed to protect them because of bruises caused frpm playing. the supervisor told me i dont deserve the kids and she would find a way to get them removed. this is when the hitting story suddenly occured. it is hard but stay by her side. everyone needs support. i hope she gets them back soon and never has to go through this again.

Caydence's mommy 4/4/09 32 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 8436 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting izzy+Ethan:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:</b>" Because her caseworker is a f**king ... [snip!] ... anyways since she already has the money for the tip put back."</blockquote> Can she ask for a different case worker?"

They wont give her a new caseworker because she has completed her case plan so realistically her children have been supposed to be placed back with here a few months ago. She even has court papers with the judges signature on them stating that custody has been returned to her and that the kids are supposed to be sent home. But the caseworker is dragging her ass on the inter state transfer which is why its so important for my brother to get off his ass and do what he is supposed to. Because with him not doing anything it give the caseworker a reason not to send the kids.

Caydence's mommy 4/4/09 32 kids; Las Vegas, Nevada 8436 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting how khuntastik:" i am going through something similar as your sil, but am just now going through the courts. they coached ... [snip!] ... it is hard but stay by her side. everyone needs support. i hope she gets them back soon and never has to go through this again."


Ive been telling her just come back to Vegas and get me. Im willing to move thousands of miles away to help her get her kids back and support them once she does get them.

how khuntastik 4 kids; California 1273 posts
7th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Caydence's mommy 4/4/09:</b>" Ive been telling her just come back to Vegas and get me. Im willing to move thousands of miles away to help her get her kids back and support them once she does get them."</blockquote>




she is very lucky to have you.