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In need of something... Mommmm Due February 14 (boy); 17 kids; Colorado 390 posts
7th Apr '13

Hi my name is Kate and I lost my baby yesterday at 15 weeks and had a D&C done today. I dont know what to do with myself right now, I have so many feelings and I am overwhelmed with so much disappointment. I am finally hope from the hospital and I feel like I cant cry anymore.



I know there are plenty of mommy's on here that have lost their baby's and I know know what it feels like, I am so sorry for all of your losses and I hope one day we heal.

LIVE.OUT.LOUD Due July 11 (boy); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Lawrenceville, Georgia 1624 posts
7th Apr '13

I'm so so so sorry for your loss!! I lost my baby at 9 weeks. It gets easier with time. If you ever need to talk feel free to PM me!

A, E & W's mommy 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Bulgaria 16529 posts
7th Apr '13

One of the most insightful things anyone ever told me when I lost my baby was to stop trying to get back to normal because that's what was keeping me in pain, she told me you can't get back to normal because it isn't there anymore, you just have to look ahead and find your new normal. Now this is probably too soon to be worrying about that, right now just surround yourself with people who'll let you talk about it and feel what you need to feel.



*hugs*

Mommmm Due February 14 (boy); 17 kids; Colorado 390 posts
7th Apr '13
Quoting A, E & W's mommy:" One of the most insightful things anyone ever told me when I lost my baby was to stop trying to get back ... [snip!] ... about that, right now just surround yourself with people who'll let you talk about it and feel what you need to feel. *hugs*"


Thank you, I appreciate it :(

Bethyboo wants a VBAC! Due July 6 (boy); 18 kids; Mississippi 1194 posts
7th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting A, E & W's mommy:</b>" One of the most insightful things anyone ever told me when I lost my baby was to stop trying to get back ... [snip!] ... about that, right now just surround yourself with people who'll let you talk about it and feel what you need to feel. *hugs*"</blockquote>




I wish that person was in my life when I lost my baby. That is amazing advice!

courtney ♡ 2 kids; Washington 16705 posts
8th Apr '13

I can't say from experience, but I believe in time you will start to feel better.
Just spend lots of extra time with your DD <3
I wish there was something we could say or do to help.
Stay strong darling.

Mommmm Due February 14 (boy); 17 kids; Colorado 390 posts
8th Apr '13

longest day of my life take 2



a lot of people have been stopping by, and got a lot of flowers.. I appriciate it but theres no need :( I feel bad but its kinad making it harder

courtney ♡ 2 kids; Washington 16705 posts
8th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting IrishTwins91213:</b>" longest day of my life take 2 a lot of people have been stopping by, and got a lot of flowers.. I appriciate it but theres no need :( I feel bad but its kinad making it harder"</blockquote>




I'm so sorry mama!

Mommmm Due February 14 (boy); 17 kids; Colorado 390 posts
8th Apr '13
Quoting courtney ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting IrishTwins91213:</b>" longest day of my life take 2 a lot of ... [snip!] ... I appriciate it but theres no need :( I feel bad but its kinad making it harder"</blockquote> I'm so sorry mama!"


its okay, im happy i got to feel the baby kick before we lost her.. i feel worse for DH who didnt get anything

courtney ♡ 2 kids; Washington 16705 posts
8th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting IrishTwins91213:</b>" its okay, im happy i got to feel the baby kick before we lost her.. i feel worse for DH who didnt get anything"</blockquote>



I can't even imagine. I hope you feel better very soon. <3

Mommmm Due February 14 (boy); 17 kids; Colorado 390 posts
8th Apr '13
Quoting courtney ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting IrishTwins91213:</b>" its okay, im happy i got to feel the ... [snip!] ... i feel worse for DH who didnt get anything"</blockquote> I can't even imagine. I hope you feel better very soon. <3"


thanks love<3

JewelesR 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Baldwinville, Massachusetts 527 posts
8th Apr '13

So very sorry for your loss. My 2 angels were so early in comparison. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.