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What do you do A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
8th Apr '13

When you miss someone, but you need to forget about them?



It's been almost two years. I don't want to miss this person anymore.



Should I block them on every form of communication?



Throw out or give away all the gifts they gave? Photos letters? Etc?

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14109 posts
8th Apr '13

In high school, I kept the things he gave me but I put them in a box and taped a note reminding me how much he hurt me on the lid. So if I was feeling sentimental, the note would remind me why it ended.



Also this quote: Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
8th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Supafly★:</b>" In high school, I kept the things he gave me but I put them in a box and taped a note reminding me how ... [snip!] ... sentimental, the note would remind me why it ended. Also this quote: Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened. "</blockquote>



I'm trying. I don't necessarily regret it- even though it hurts now. Maybe I will try putting everything in a box and never looking at it.

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
8th Apr '13

Unless he was your BD then I would throw it all out

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
8th Apr '13

Completely erase him. Keep busy, and be a little selfish. Pamper yourself or treat yourself out. Make yourself feel good and it will become a habit

Nae&Zoe's Mommy 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Red Deer, Alberta 618 posts
status 8th Apr '13

If you dont have any kind of reason to be holding onto things then get rid of it all. The only way Id keep in contact with someone I wanted to forget was if I had children with that person.. My ex bf (before my husband) was douchebag, but when we did break up I was fine for a lil while but the talking with him and the occasional hook up was to much. I had to cut off all ties with him in order for me to move on. Now, I married the true love of my life and have two beautiful girls <3<3