ok so im in labour..
since sat mornin ive had strong contractions every ten mins
went to hosp lastnight with contractions 5 mins apart..
they checked me and said i wasent dialated yet and they want the pains to be
4 mins apart.. told me to go home and rest..which i did at 4.30 am and also regret because the pains went to every ten mins again and dont seem to be picking up.. there really bad pains and im climbing the walls.. i dont know how much more i can take .. feel like lying on the floor and crying!! any ideas on how i can get them to come closer again??
Patience. Walk like crazy, bounce on a labor ball, things like that are what have helped my sister go into labor. The baby will come when the baby's ready. If you're not dilated yet that means the baby isn't ready. You can have this sort of "false" labor for weeks unfortunately!
walking will help :) I have 3 an all I did was walk an it helped me go into labor an helped me thru labor
Walking not only helps labor on it can help with the pain, you can also take a shower and rock. I know that sounds silly but just rock your hips and lean forward so the water is running on your back. It makes you feel a lot better.
I asked the hospital if it was real labour just to be sure and they said yes.. i think im more frustrated as they sent me home for the sake of one minute! i was progressing so within half an hour prob would have got to 4 mins but they sent me home and told me to lie down.. which ended up slowing things down... is so painful i dont know how much longer i can cope :(
Quoting Nemo's Mummy 2 be:" I asked the hospital if it was real labour just to be sure and they said yes.. i think im more frustrated ... [snip!] ... home and told me to lie down.. which ended up slowing things down... is so painful i dont know how much longer i can cope :( "
If you can't take it go back in, tell them about how much pain you're in.
If things slowed down from laying down it's probably just false labor or early labor honestly. My sister went to the hospital 3 times with my nephew over a course of a week and a half before she was in real active labor. She'd go, not be dilated, contractions would slow down when she'd lay down and they'd send her home. If you're in real labor the contractions keep coming closer and closer no matter what you do. Try the walking, walk as much as you can. Go shopping for a few hours and see if that helps. I've also heard eating spicy food can help! Good luck!!!
I just went threw that the other day and it was false labor they said it can still hurt and everything and after I laid down for a hour it slowed down I still have em my docter said u can do it for weeks sometimes befor its real labor but a hot shower n walking helped me but if its to bad go bck and tell them u can't stand the pain I'm sure they check u agien and maybe keep u to watch u for a while i knw i was kinda mad at em when they told me to go home bc i was worried i wouldnt knw how bad to let it get befor comen bck but I knw how u fill I been going threw it but actually my pain dnt seem as bad as urs....