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Should I keep trying? First Time Momma(: 1 child; Columbus, Ohio 686 posts
8th Apr '13

My baby's father only sees him like once a week for 2-3 hours a time. I text him everyday he's off to see if he wants him. He says its like I'm trying to pawn my son off which isn't true I just want his father to be in his life more. At first I didn't want his gf around my son so he never got him now that I don't care he still doesn't get him. I feel like if I didn't ask him to get our son he never would. Idk what to do anymore. I'm so stressed I give myself hives and my supply and getting all fucked up :(

BRowell 3 kids; 2 angel babies; Bristol, TN, United States 3681 posts
8th Apr '13

If I were you I just wouldn't stress about it. Let him contact you when he wants to see his son.

BeginTheRomance Due July 21; 1 child; Rochester, New York 373 posts
8th Apr '13

Stop stressing. Let him come to you.



If he doesn't want to see the little one, so be it. HIS loss.

orchidlovingmama 2 kids; Santa Rosa, California 1733 posts
8th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BRowell:</b>" If I were you I just wouldn't stress about it. Let him contact you when he wants to see his son."</blockquote>




Agreed

First Time Momma(: 1 child; Columbus, Ohio 686 posts
8th Apr '13

I don't only want him to see lo once a week I feel like it should be more or not at all. He's just gonna upset our lo in the end I don't want that to happen

lise. ෆ 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cold, Ol, Canada 58828 posts
8th Apr '13

Don't waste your time.



DD is 2. Her father is two streets over, laid off and only takes her on his weekend, which is every second. Can't force someone who doesn't want to be there, to be there.

Pirate 2 kids; Arizona 1506 posts
8th Apr '13

Men like that rarely change, so don't bother stressing yourself out the way you are. If he cared he'd be taking responsibility to see his child. For now keep the door open but don't contact him. He needs to decide if he wants to man up or not.

mom2andrew&carter 18 kids; Leesburg, Florida 2159 posts
9th Apr '13

I would just stop texting him and stop asking him. You cant force him to be a father to your son. he either wants to be or he doesnt.