SO asks sometimes before sex...but to do until he finishes, he's only asked on days that I couldn't sleep with him. I do every time he asks because he would be down there for me at any time of day before I could even get the question out.. lol.. We've been together for 2 years, and it's always been like this :)
Quoting Forrest Bondurant &hearts:" Maybe 3 times a month? It's usually me that asks."
:!: Same. Once a weeks, so maybe 3-4 times per month and I'm the one that brings it up. And that's ANYTHING sexual. He never asks for BJs (although I do it as foreplay). In my opinion he has a VERY low sex drive and honestly it drives me nuts. I've talked to him about it several times and want him to see a doctor. Honestly, if I didn't bring it up or hint at it, we'd do it like once a month... He doesn't get turned on very easily either... It really sucks honestly. I wish he had a higher sex drive... We've been together 8 years and he's 31 and in EXCELLENT phsyical health/condition, so I don't get what the problem is.
WHEN we do it, the sex is great though... LOL
Every other day he is usually making comments or being particularly more grab ass than usual. But with both working f/t and having 2 kids, one being a newb we manage to do something like, once a week. *le sigh*
We've been together almost 7 years, married for nearly 6.
Oh and triggers are:
Me bending over
Me talking about sucking or licking something
Him asking about my sexual past
Been married 5 years friday. Together 8 years. He makes comments a few times a day, everyday. When i was pg he tried not to say anything but once or twice a week since i couldnt almost the whole time. We have sex 3-4x a week.
As soon as my son falls asleep, its the first question out his mouth.
If I walk into the laundry room. Still dont know why that is.
If he is bored.
Generally the conversation goes:
"You feel like having sex?"
"Not right now babe, maybe later"
"ok" ten minutes later
We've only been together 7/8 months so we're, or rather he's, still in that stage of "YAY sex!" and wants it literally every second he sees its a possibility.