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Fustercluck Due August 19 (boy); 2 kids; Manitoba 4460 posts
8th Apr '13

SO asks sometimes before sex...but to do until he finishes, he's only asked on days that I couldn't sleep with him. I do every time he asks because he would be down there for me at any time of day before I could even get the question out.. lol.. We've been together for 2 years, and it's always been like this :)

Mrs. Post-tato Head 4 kids; 1 angel baby; 6849 posts
8th Apr '13
Quoting Forrest Bondurant &hearts:" Maybe 3 times a month? It's usually me that asks."


:!: Same. Once a weeks, so maybe 3-4 times per month and I'm the one that brings it up. And that's ANYTHING sexual. He never asks for BJs (although I do it as foreplay). In my opinion he has a VERY low sex drive and honestly it drives me nuts. I've talked to him about it several times and want him to see a doctor. Honestly, if I didn't bring it up or hint at it, we'd do it like once a month... He doesn't get turned on very easily either... It really sucks honestly. I wish he had a higher sex drive... We've been together 8 years and he's 31 and in EXCELLENT phsyical health/condition, so I don't get what the problem is.



WHEN we do it, the sex is great though... LOL

zombie. 2 kids; Leadville, Colorado 23606 posts
9th Apr '13

Been married 5 years friday. Together 8 years. He makes comments a few times a day, everyday. When i was pg he tried not to say anything but once or twice a week since i couldnt almost the whole time. We have sex 3-4x a week.

Ꭶwan♥Nemo 1 child; Kansas City, Missouri 7416 posts
9th Apr '13

As soon as my son falls asleep, its the first question out his mouth.
If I walk into the laundry room. Still dont know why that is.
If he is bored.



Generally the conversation goes:
"You feel like having sex?"
"Not right now babe, maybe later"
"ok" ten minutes later
"...Now?"
"sigh....ok"



We've only been together 7/8 months so we're, or rather he's, still in that stage of "YAY sex!" and wants it literally every second he sees its a possibility.

Tricia♥ [+4Boys] 4 kids; Indiana 5818 posts
9th Apr '13

5 years and he gets after me all. damn. day. long. every single day trying to get me to have sex with him. He's just crazy about me, I guess..