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SO just told me Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
9th Apr '13

He's not putting up with MY shit anymore. Um excuse me f****r but you do NOTHING.



It's a project to get you to "watch" your daughter for 10 mins, you refuse to do anything with her. I make your lunch, do your laundry, drive LO to and from school everyday while you just get to sit on your ass then disappear for hours whenever you feel like it. I have to clean when things are a mess but you can just sit there and stare at it.



I've been the man in this relationship for the last 3 years. I'm the one who drives to dinner when he feels like going out, I'm the one who pays, I'm the one who drives to the movies and pays. He bought me a pandora bracelet last week first thing I've gotten in YEARS and he only did it so I wouldn't use the blackmail I found against him. He works and makes a decent more than I do so it's not like he doesn't have money.



But he's done with my shit. That's funny.

SR ♥ 1 child; V, AR, United States 7869 posts
9th Apr '13

If I were you, I would have stopped catering to him a long time ago!!

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
9th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" If I were you, I would have stopped catering to him a long time ago!!"</blockquote>




I know his parents tell me the same thing! I'm too nice of a damn person.

Sugarhiccup LLC ; 5 kids; Lahaina, Hawaii 2825 posts
9th Apr '13

Sorry you're dealing with this crap! My oldest son's sperm donor was exactly like that. Honestly, I was happy I finally woke up and dropped his ass. I've never looked back. Well, other than when I think damn I should've ended it sooner. I figured if I was doing everything already what did I really need him for you know. Let him go, file for child support and enjoy not putting up with his shit anymore!

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
9th Apr '13

Why DO you put up with the shit?



I see people being treated like this and think... Life is SOOOO effing short to be treated like a maid instead of a partner.

A, E & W's mommy 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Bulgaria 15847 posts
9th Apr '13
Quoting Tikaytasha:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" If I were you, I would have stopped ... [snip!] ... to him a long time ago!!"</blockquote> I know his parents tell me the same thing! I'm too nice of a damn person."


unfortunately if you keep putting up with his shit and catering to him then you end up being the maker of your own problems, sorry he's acting like a dip shit :(

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
9th Apr '13

Congratulations?



I mean seems like you win in this.

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
9th Apr '13

Every time I say I'll leave, he promises things will get better blah blah blah. But in time it always comes back to this shit :/ and we live together for now because he got laid off and juuuust started a new job a few weeks ago. I'll be going back to school full time come September.




And yes I've told him this. On numerous occasions. Every time I do he flips out and turns it around on me.



Just basically a vent. I've stopped making his lunch and doing his laundry. Hope he enjoys doing it

mommabyrd Due August 27; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Niagara Falls, New York 115 posts
9th Apr '13

Tell him to kick rocks and goodbye!!! He's the type that once he's paying for everything and doesn't have anyone who is nice enough to put up with his sh*t, he'll be calling you back up, begging and pleading.... please give me another chance. Screw him, he doesn't know a good thing while he has it!! Make sure you take his ass for child support too!!

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
9th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting mommabyrd:</b>" Tell him to kick rocks and goodbye!!! He's the type that once he's paying for everything and doesn't ... [snip!] ... me another chance. Screw him, he doesn't know a good thing while he has it!! Make sure you take his ass for child support too!!"</blockquote>




He's done it before! I was dating someone else, wanted nothing to do with him. He called my phone nonnnnn stop and literally showed up at my house crying at 11 pm. I'm so over it! I don't need this added stress going back to school.

user banned California 8675 posts
9th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tikaytasha:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Tiger Lily ♥:</b>" If I were you, I would have stopped ... [snip!] ... to him a long time ago!!"</blockquote> I know his parents tell me the same thing! I'm too nice of a damn person."</blockquote>




Yes, I am afraid you are hun but you know what if you ever leave his little ass he will realize one day how great of a woman you are and I doubt he will find another good woman like you. Stay strong momma and keep your head up.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
9th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tikaytasha:</b>" Every time I say I'll leave, he promises things will get better blah blah blah. But in time it always ... [snip!] ... turns it around on me. Just basically a vent. I've stopped making his lunch and doing his laundry. Hope he enjoys doing it"</blockquote>




So basically you're going to stay in this shitty relationship and continue being treated like shit because you feel he's being punished enough by having to temporarily do his laundry and make his own lunch?



To put it simply...have some self respect.

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
9th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tikaytasha:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting mommabyrd:</b>" Tell him to kick rocks and goodbye!!! He's the ... [snip!] ... stop and literally showed up at my house crying at 11 pm. I'm so over it! I don't need this added stress going back to school."</blockquote>




And you complain about it as if it didn't work and you didn't take him back.