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Toni-Elizabeth 1 child; Massachusetts 1084 posts
9th Apr '13

& it doesn't help that i still know every password of his... should probably make him change it!!

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
9th Apr '13
Quoting Toni-Elizabeth:" I know... this is why i had to post it here.. Everyone is very honest, but your right i am holding on ... [snip!] ... am holding on to a memory and a relationship that didn't work out. He has moved on clearly and i'm still stuck here in the past"


Well, stuck in the past isn't what I would say. I would say living in a fantasy. Find a man who appreciates you and cherishes your heart.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 26153 posts
status 9th Apr '13
Quoting Toni-Elizabeth:" We have been officially done since july.. We were trying to get back together and i had found out he ... [snip!] ... anything. How do i allow myself to let go and to move on ? & know that if we really are ment to be it will happen."


I've been in the same situation.... I keep holding onto my ex and can't let go. It sucks :(

Betty Draper 1 child; Illinois 753 posts
11th Apr '13

i could have wrote everything you did. I'm going through hell with my son's father as well. I don't know what to do because I'm still very much in love with him and he was lying cheating the whole time. :cry:
I go to therapy, I joined the gym, try to stay busy which is easy with a toddler,
spending my baby free days with friends or at the gym. tried online dating but realized I'm not ready to date. For now I just focus on my son,looking for a better job and staying hooked on TV series -
you're not alone I feel broken and cry everyday, we officially stopped our 5 year back and forth on/off relationship this Nov. I know that time will help.

Toni-Elizabeth 1 child; Massachusetts 1084 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting Fiona Gallagher ♡:" i could have wrote everything you did. I'm going through hell with my son's father as well. I don't know ... [snip!] ... and cry everyday, we officially stopped our 5 year back and forth on/off relationship this Nov. I know that time will help."


I tried online dating too! and also realized i was not ready to give myself to anyone when i still wasnt over him and still didn't love my self enough or have any confidence. I am actually get my tummy tuck finally may 9th and have been doing pretty good with keeping myself busy. I'm hoping after surgery i can atleast gain some confidence back and continue to keep moving forward with life. At the end of the day he's not worth my sadness,tears, any of it. Just got to remember myself that and tell myself that i deserve so much better.. as do you ladies!!