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user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" That is kinda f**king weird. "</blockquote>



Uhm yeah. OP how long have you been with this dude?

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
10th Apr '13

I don't really want to go through his phone but I feel like I have the right to since he has pictures of me that I don't want on there.

misanthrope 2 kids; Ramona, California 15425 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" Yes it is."</blockquote>




I'm really sorry. It's a awful thing to do. I hope he will delete them.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting T - 10 days:" Wow. I don't even know. I'd feel really violated and would honestly probably freak. It would be a really big fight."


I couldn't make a big deal about it because the kids were around when he showed me.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" That is kinda f**king weird. "</blockquote> Uhm yeah. OP how long have you been with this dude?"


We have been back together for 5 years and I have known him for 19.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting misanthrope:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" Yes it is."</blockquote> I'm really sorry. It's a awful thing to do. I hope he will delete them."


I hope he does. I am going to talk to him in a bit.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" We have been back together for 5 years and I have known him for 19."</blockquote>



Why won't he tell you where they are?

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" We have been back together for 5 years and I have known him for 19."</blockquote> Why won't he tell you where they are?"


He says they are on a card somewhere. He just got a new phone so he has a backup of all his pictures.

What if... 2 kids; Ontario 4587 posts
10th Apr '13

oh shit. I don't even know what I would do.
that is all kinds of wrong.
he violated you

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
10th Apr '13

He said I can delete them because he doesn't know how. :roll:



He is an idiot when it comes to phones but at least I get to delete them. He doesn't understand what the big deal is.

user banned 3 kids; Washington 15083 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" He says they are on a card somewhere. He just got a new phone so he has a backup of all his pictures."</blockquote>
I would probably break his electronics/cards if he wouldn't erase them. But that's just me.

empire state of mind New York, New York 12203 posts
10th Apr '13

I would press charges

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting ♫ boobook ♫:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" He says they are on a card somewhere. He ... [snip!] ... his pictures."</blockquote> I would probably break his electronics/cards if he wouldn't erase them. But that's just me."


LOL, I thought of that.

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
10th Apr '13

I'd probably consider leaving the creep. Its one thing to do it, but to not even respect you enough to delete is another. I mean how did he think you would react when you told him? That you would just be fine with those floating around wherever. I definitely would talk to him about it again once you can.

SillyBek Due June 23; 17 kids; Utah 307 posts
10th Apr '13

Maybe I'm a weirdo but I would be ok with it, but I'm super comfortable and trusting with my SO. We normally have a very sexual relationship (when I'm not prego like now lol) but are also very emotionally connected. Now if there were ones that I didn't like or I found unattractive and he wouldn't delete them I might get upset he should be willing to accommodate your comfort zone.