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Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting amkcr8667810:</b>" They don't know where she is and would have to "track her down" but she's coming to "get" this baby? Makes sense if you don't think about it. "</blockquote>




They are having her come in so they don't have to track her down..... If they just tell her over the phone they aren't giving her baby back I doubt she will just come in plus she has to break the section 9 (adoption) order before they can serve her with any other papers... but Im sure you are just an expert when it comes to adoption and how social services in Canada works so Im sure you knew that.

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting amkcr8667810:</b>" None of this makes sense though. If her famoly gets first pick, and if the only way your parents will ... [snip!] ... any suitable family members, then why were your parents brought in as adoptive parents at all? Is the system this messed up??"</blockquote>




Um because the birth mom got files for adoptive families and looked through them and chose my parents to adopt her baby... you obviously know nothing about how any of this works.

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Two Princesses:</b>" Yeah that's shitty. She should have been informed. Once Children's Services takes her will your parents get her back?"</blockquote



since they are also a foster home they will probably have her for a while until everything is sorted out but if the birth mom of birth father has any suitable family members willing to take her that's where she will go.

************************* Chehalis, Washington 362 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting Brookie99:" <blockquote><b>Quoting amkcr8667810:</b>" None of this makes sense though. If her famoly ... [snip!] ... and looked through them and chose my parents to adopt her baby... you obviously know nothing about how any of this works."



Crazy as it sounds, I don't know a lot about it...that's why I'm asking questions...but I'm sure you're an expert on knowing everything, that's why you obviously are a b!tch to anyone who asks questions.

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting amkcr8667810:</b>" Crazy as it sounds, I don't know a lot about it...that's why I'm asking questions...but I'm sure you're ... [snip!] ... I'm sure you're an expert on knowing everything, that's why you obviously are a b!tch to anyone who asks questions. "</blockquote>




There is a difference between asking questions and implying that someone is lying about a topic you know nothing about. If you haven't noticed a lot of other people asked questions that I was more than happy to answer and wasn't bitchy about at all.

************************* Chehalis, Washington 362 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting Brookie99:" <blockquote><b>Quoting amkcr8667810:</b>" Crazy as it sounds, I don't know a lot ... [snip!] ... you haven't noticed a lot of other people asked questions that I was more than happy to answer and wasn't bitchy about at all."


Then you took me wrong. Hence, why I asked "is the system really this messed up?". If I thought you were lying I think I would have said something along the lines of "I think you're full of sh!t" but that's just me.

Brookie99 1 child; Fort McMurray, Alberta 1126 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting amkcr8667810:</b>" Then you took me wrong. Hence, why I asked "is the system really this messed up?". If I thought you ... [snip!] ... you were lying I think I would have said something along the lines of "I think you're full of sh!t" but that's just me. "</blockquote>




Well from your first post it came across as you saying I was full of shit.

Cordelia's Mom 33 kids; Bakersfield, California 3685 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting amkcr8667810:" Then you took me wrong. Hence, why I asked "is the system really this messed up?". If I thought you ... [snip!] ... you were lying I think I would have said something along the lines of "I think you're full of sh!t" but that's just me. "


I'm not trying to be a b***h or start anything but I was getting the impression you thought she was lying too.

************************* Chehalis, Washington 362 posts
10th Apr '13

Sorry. Wasn't how I meant it. I mean, not that it doesn't seem super messed up but idk why someone would lie about something like this so...