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************************* Chehalis, Washington 362 posts
10th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting BlueButtons:</b>" It would bother me but rather than lie about it and hide it..I would rather he told me and felt he could ... [snip!] ... if anyone was anti p**n....so anti p**n that they will consider leaving their spouses if they caught them watching p**n"</blockquote>




Ahhh gotcha. Like I said, just curious.

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31068 posts
10th Apr '13

Maybe he got the idea you cared some how? Only reason I could think a dude would hide that. I, myself, love p**n & see no problems with it as long as someone doesn't get addicted to p**n or anything. Most women who flip out over their SO/DH watching p**n have some self-esteem issues...I mean I have some self-esteem problems myself but I would never feel hurt if my bf watched p**n. Many guys do that, it isn't some HUGE deal...it is normal to me lol.

♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
10th Apr '13

I won't watch and I think it's gross. IDC if others watch it, I also do no care if DH watches if....just not for me.

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31068 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting ✩BG Addict✩:" i'm definitely not anti-p**n. i love watching p**n. if i had better interent speed i'd probbaly be watching it now. lol idc if SO watches it either."


I swear I am like a dude with p**n lmfao. When I was hella horny & pregnant..I watched p**n almost every day hahahaha.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
10th Apr '13

To be honest I don't think I know what you are really talking about due to the fact you keep associating him viewing p**n with him wanting to go out and have an affair. You're saying you are ok with him viewing p**n and having affairs? However all he has done is looked at p**n, shown no indication of wanting to cheat on you? I also don't understand why you think because your DH is watching p**n that he should come tell you he wants an affair?....... :? :? :?



I think you have gotten the 2 deeply confused with each other and you need to address it.



I am fine with DH viewing p**n however cheating/having an affair is something completely different and I am certainly not fine with that.

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31068 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting Princess Celestia [11]:" I don't really think of it as him getting off to another woman... I think of it as him getting off by ... [snip!] ... people have sex. That's what I get off to anyway, not OMGGGZZZ SHES SO HOT TOTALLY BANG THE SHIT OUT OF HER FINGER ME NOW PLZ"


Yea exactly what it is to me! I am not watching it to fantasize about some dude or chick in the p**n having sex with me, I do it to watch sex & get turned on lol.

loser mom Due June 24 (twins); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Oslo, Norway, ,,, Europe 11507 posts
status 10th Apr '13

I probably watch more p**n than my husband. :oops::D

☮Hippie Jesus☮ 2 kids; West Virginia 10560 posts
10th Apr '13

Do you need to know every time he looks at p**n, really? If the truth really was that it didn't bother you then you wouldn't be policing it at all... So what if he privately looks at p**n? I think it actually is the p**n that bothers you rather than his "hiding" it because that doesn't make sense... Should he sit with you and watch it or let you know when he's watching it?



My SO watches p**n... Probably not as much as I do. He'll sometimes go in the other room to watch or he'll watch while I'm right there in the room. And then he gives me the b***r. Thank you, p**n! :)

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
10th Apr '13

I love p**n, my hubby loves p**n, I watch him watch p**n he watches me lol
I hate when women say "hes getting off to other women and thats not ok"... Cause hes really not getting off on the girl its just the sex he likes. If my husband was looking at like live cams or something that would bother me because its MUCH more personal....
And lastly im not sure what the point of your post is...

jo-jo 2 kids; ..., SA, Australia 2310 posts
10th Apr '13

Blahh, its just p**n, there are way worse things he could be doing. I would rather my dh be home watching p**n and getting it on with me, instead of sitting in a titty bar throwing our money at a stripper!! (not that I would stop him if he/we did this once in a blue moon lol).
My point?? p**n is cheaper lol...

Snippy Due March 8; 1 child; Australia 419 posts
10th Apr '13

I'm anti p**n because he rejects me every single night except for once or twice a month but if we spend any nights apart he spends the whole time wanking. Including live cams

user banned Lesbos, Greece 95211 posts
10th Apr '13

I don't pay much attention to his masturbation habits. I'm pretty sure he watches p**n though.

♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting Saffy the Dragon Slayer:" I don't pay much attention to his masturbation habits. I'm pretty sure he watches p**n though."


thats how I am, I don't wanna embarrass him. I walked in on him once, but he didn't know! I just quietly shut the door n snuck away...never mentioned it never will! I do my own thing too ^_^

one of each 4 me Due January 8; TTC since Mar 2014; 3 kids; Ohio 6225 posts
10th Apr '13

I don't mind if my husband watches p**n. But I have this rule about it that's weird. I tell him I don't mind if he watches but if we just had sex that day to not watch anymore that day. To me I feel like I should have satisfied him enough for the day.
I like watching some p**n too. I am kind of picky about it though