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......... ♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11246 posts
10th Apr '13

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Kylie's👣Mommy. 1 child; 1 angel baby; Texas 3452 posts
10th Apr '13

He was just told he could possibly have it. He went and got tested immediately. You can't be mad at him, because you had I'm guessing unprotected sex with him. So you put yourself at risk.



I'm really not trying to sound mean. I hope all is well and your good to go.

Christan_89 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8043 posts
10th Apr '13

How long had he known that she was positive?? If he JUST found out... you gotta' cut him some slack... he didn't know. If he's known for a while and just didn't say anything, yeah... I'd be beyond pissed.

************************* Chehalis, Washington 362 posts
10th Apr '13

If it was before you, he didn't cheat on you, and he didn't know she had it and kept it from you then I don't see why you would be mad at him for it. STD's are an assumed risk for both partners when you have sex, just as pregnancy is. Both are preventable.

**mummyX3** 3 kids; Australia 1071 posts
10th Apr '13

I have been in this situation but roles reversed i was with my now husband when my previous sexual partner rang and told me he had caught it feom the girl he slept with before me so me and my dh got tested i was positive he wasnt we both toom the pills didnt have sex and it was gone... although i was embarrassed because we hadnt been togther long when this all happened he wasnt bothered.



Stds are very common and not hard to get i know it feels bad knowing u have had one but it could happen to anyone. If he had known for the full year that he might have had it that is pretty deceptive and not cool but if he was only recently told u cant hold it against him. Hes probably feeling pretty bad too

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45941 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting ♥MamaToSilas♥:" ...................."


Honestly, you chose to have unprotected sex in a relatively new relationship. It's not just his "fault".



It's good practice to be tested and insist your potential partner is tested prior to having sex.

************************* Chehalis, Washington 362 posts
10th Apr '13

I'm fairly new but why do so many people delete their posts?

ღ.ღ.ღ 3 kids; South Carolina 7316 posts
10th Apr '13
Quoting amkcr8667810:" I'm fairly new but why do so many people delete their posts?"


They don't want people knowing what they asked or vented about. Could be a number of reasons why they do it.

♥MomToSilas+1♥ Due December 9; 1 child; ., IL, United States 11246 posts
10th Apr '13

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Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45941 posts
10th Apr '13

You just get over it.



If you can't, get counseling or consider ending the relationship.