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CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
12th Apr '13

my stepdad was raised horribly. physically and mentally and emotionally abused. once i turned into a teenager and started doing things he didnt like he made life SO hard for me. he was emotionally and mentally abusive, and I know its because of how he was raised. i will use how i was treated as an example of what NOT to do with my kids

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" my stepdad was raised horribly. physically and mentally and emotionally abused. once i turned into a ... [snip!] ... abusive, and I know its because of how he was raised. i will use how i was treated as an example of what NOT to do with my kids"


see i would blame him for that not his parents. When you become an adult there is no excuse for that. when you have kids you have to educate yourself and learn. There is personal accountability

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" see i would blame him for that not his parents. When you become an adult there is no excuse for that. when you have kids you have to educate yourself and learn. There is personal accountability"</blockquote>




oh I know I blame him to, not the people who raised him, but I know where he got those actions from. But I was never "his child" to him so he didnt see it as being abusive.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" see i would blame him for that not his parents. ... [snip!] ... him, but I know where he got those actions from. But I was never "his child" to him so he didnt see it as being abusive."


wow im sorry i feel some anger towards your mother for that honestly. I could never be with a man that didnt love my child as much as me

Sara❥ 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 8621 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" see i would blame him for that not his parents. When you become an adult there is no excuse for that. when you have kids you have to educate yourself and learn. There is personal accountability"</blockquote>




I agree with this! He has to accountable for what he does regardless of how he was raised.

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
12th Apr '13

ya dont get me wrong my mom was pretty amazing but no one understood that I grew up with him since I was four he was my only father figure, and then I turned 13 and it was like I was public enemy number one. Honestly I think he was jealous of my relationship with my mom because it was always her against him and "she has to choose a side me or him". I always felt bad for him growing up because of how he was raised but I never thought it was an excuse or ok

mamaluvsher4babies 36 kids; California 4230 posts
13th Apr '13

My mother is a selfish negative b***h! So no I do not act or parent like her :)

Sara❥ 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 8621 posts
13th Apr '13

Thanks for all te responses lades. I was really just curious. My dad has been in and out of my life ever since I was little and I recently cut him out of my life (when I was pregnant). I just didn't want him to hurt DS in the ways he hurt me growing up. I can't imagine not seeing my kiddo for a whole 2 days much less a year without talking to him or anything. I can definitely say that I will not do any of the things he's done.