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user banned 2 kids; Hamilton, Ontario 19220 posts
11th Apr '13

oh your friends with the WIFE...ignore my previous post.



Id just support her and show her she can overcome this, and hes not worth it.

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
11th Apr '13

Depends on how close we are. I'd probably call her a home wrecking skank and be done with it/her. I've been on the other end of that and that's not okay.

tonys_mama(army wife) 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Fort Irwin, California 15535 posts
11th Apr '13

I couldn't be friends with someone who helps break up a family. I would tell her shes a home wrecker and I don't want anything to do with her.

BαtMαɳ Gotham, __, United States 65402 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien:" My friend is the wife. And her 'husband' is being such an a*****e right now. And the other woman's ... [snip!] ... are all non-chalant about it saying that "Yay, I'm glad you're happy, who cares how it happened!" I'm over here like :?"


Poor woman. I would do my best to support her and keep her occupied and help her move on.

His momma! Due May 28 (boy); 1 child; San Antonio, Texas 328 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting bloopbloop♥

JΔS Georgia 74479 posts
11th Apr '13

As a married woman, no I would not support her. I'd tell her about herself.

user banned California 8675 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting jazzzzz*:</b>" Stay out of it"</blockquote>




Plain and simple. We dont know why he left or what happend behind close doors so with that been said we cant judge a book by its cover and is better not to get involved. If op is a true friend all she can do is be there for her and lift her up but other than that change the conversation. Her friend could just be telling the op what she want her to know but not everything kwim?

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Poor woman. I would do my best to support her and keep her occupied and help her move on."



I feel so bad for her because this is such a small town, Everyone knows everything. All 3 of us have people in common in our friend's lists (I'm not friends the skank) but I'm just glad that she gets to show her face at work and everyone will know what she's doing.

Christan_89 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8043 posts
11th Apr '13

The more I think about it the more I realize that something like this would break up my friendship with the person. I couldn't be friends with someone like that. I'd call her out and let things end, honestly. I just... can't be friends with someone with no integrity. And helping to break up a marriage with a new baby involved is freaking LOW. Why should I ever trust her with my OWN husband, ya know? I mean... obviously it takes two, but it's just not something I could condone.

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
11th Apr '13
Quoting iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien:" My friend is the wife. And her 'husband' is being such an a*****e right now. And the other woman's ... [snip!] ... are all non-chalant about it saying that "Yay, I'm glad you're happy, who cares how it happened!" I'm over here like :?"


Well the wife seeing all that shit isn't doing herself any favors. She should delete the husband to prevent seeing that sort of shit.

If I were friends with the girl then I would stay out of it. But if someone said something negative I would defend her.You never honestly know what the situation looks like from the gitlfriends side. What if he was THE ONE. And she knew it. I knew the day I met my DH he was the one. And if he would have left his wife or gf for me I would have been thankful that I got the spend my life with him. Even if it sucked for someone else.

iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien 3 kids; New York, TX, United States 37137 posts
11th Apr '13

And I'm also glad the a*****e got a huge tat of my friend's name on his arm. :lol:

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44070 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien:</b>" I feel so bad for her because this is such a small town, Everyone knows everything. All 3 of us have ... [snip!] ... (I'm not friends the skank) but I'm just glad that she gets to show her face at work and everyone will know what she's doing."</blockquote>



Poor thing :( did he cheat or just up and say "hey I'm leaving" and then ended up with her? (Well technically he's cheating now anyway since they're legally married IMO).

Red Bottom 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15275 posts
11th Apr '13

The ex wife should stop looking at their Facebook.



It sucks knowing your friend wrecked a home, but that's none of your business and not your problem. You support your friends, not necessarily what they do.



My father cheated on my mom with his now wife of 20 years. It sucks that he cheated but his wife is an amazing woman. I can't imagine her friends not being happy for her because of my biological mom being broken hearted.

laura+3.0 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Texas 14725 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting iLL-Legal Unicorn Alien:</b>" My friend is the wife. And her 'husband' is being such an a*****e right now. And the other woman's ... [snip!] ... are all non-chalant about it saying that "Yay, I'm glad you're happy, who cares how it happened!" I'm over here like :?"</blockquote>




:( poor thing. Just be supportive as much as you can. Maybe suggest she clean up her friends list or temporarily deactivate fb?

user banned California 8675 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Asher and Haddie's Mommy:</b>" The more I think about it the more I realize that something like this would break up my friendship with ... [snip!] ... I ever trust her with my OWN husband, ya know? I mean... obviously it takes two, but it's just not something I could condone. "</blockquote>




I agree but I think the wife if the friend not the gf please correct me if I am wrong.