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Tony met someone. FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27275 posts
status 11th Apr '13

I dont even know what to feel.... Im fucking lost.




I feel like my whole world has caved in. I thought we had a chance. For those that know me, know the issues Ive had with Tony. I planned on giving him back his necklaces I took back when we broke up, they were really special necklaces that mean a lot. Giving him a letter. And while hes not "with" her, I feel like writing a letter would be useless.



My soul is fucking crushed.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
11th Apr '13

Presents aren't promises.



Sometimes people suck, and them breaking your heart is the best gift they ever gave you.

Pey and Trista's mommy Due January 5; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42503 posts
11th Apr '13

I'm so sorry....i hope your heart mends quickly.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
11th Apr '13

I'm so sorry :(
I've seen a few of your posts about him. I hope you feel better soon, i know how hard it can be to pick up the pieces and move on.

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
11th Apr '13

This too shall pass. I know it fucking sucks, but it could end up being the best thing thats ever happened to you.

Norah&Ellie's Momma 2 kids; Kentucky 4167 posts
11th Apr '13

I'm sorry :(

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
11th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting White Chocolate Milk:</b>" This too shall pass. I know it fucking sucks, but it could end up being the best thing thats ever happened to you."</blockquote>




This. He was playing games with your heart.
Sometimes it's better to have a temporarily broken heart than having your heart be used as a toy forever.

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27275 posts
status 12th Apr '13
Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" This too shall pass. I know it fucking sucks, but it could end up being the best thing thats ever happened to you."


He's my best friend. He knows me better than anyone ever has loved me, and it isnt the best thing that can happen to me. Some old hag he met online (yes shes old) doesnt know him like I do. Doesnt put up with his kid like I do. Fuck, his fucking roomie talks shit about his son and I say nothing as to not hurt him. Im the only true person hes ever had in his life, we have been through everything together. And everytime we hang out he is clingy to me, gives me that look, he gives in, but then talks to that bastard roommate and things are fucked to shit. The best thing that has ever happened to me was Tony... I will never believe anyone is better. ARGH fuck, I should have my best friend post. She knows us (her screen name is Lumen Ash) and she will even vouch... we are like soulmates. That was torn apart by his roommate and now its like a brick wall... Tony will break down, start to give in, want to talk about it and then the dickweed puts his two cents in and we are fucked to shit again.

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting FroggysMommy:</b>" He's my best friend. He knows me better than anyone ever has loved me, and it isnt the best thing that ... [snip!] ... down, start to give in, want to talk about it and then the dickweed puts his two cents in and we are fucked to shit again."</blockquote>



If you are meant. to be, you will be. Even if it's months or years down the road, it will happen.

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting FroggysMommy:" He's my best friend. He knows me better than anyone ever has loved me, and it isnt the best thing that ... [snip!] ... down, start to give in, want to talk about it and then the dickweed puts his two cents in and we are fucked to shit again."


If something as simple as roommate can end things between you two, then something wasn't right to begin with. If things are meant to be, then they will be. When I lost my SO, I never thought it would be ok. He was my best friend, and I did feel like we were soul mates. We broke up and ended up seeing other people, and things ended up working out well for us.



As much as I feel for you, I still can't help but think there is something more to his roommate causing the break up. At least for him, if a simple conversation could end things so quickly, it is probably better off that way. Things will get better, with or without him. But don't allow your heart to be used as a puppet with him just pulling your strings.

Two Princesses 2 kids; Long Beach, CA, United States 7203 posts
12th Apr '13

I'm so sorry momma.
I know it hurts now, but time will help ease the pain.
When me and my ex husband split, it was so hard. I thought I was going to die from the pain of not being with him.
Turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me, or one of them anyway. I ended up meeting my soul mate. Our relationship is so much healthier and he's a great dad.
*Hugs*

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18298 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting White Chocolate Milk:</b>" If something as simple as roommate can end things between you two, then something wasn't right to begin ... [snip!] ... will get better, with or without him. But don't allow your heart to be used as a puppet with him just pulling your strings. "</blockquote>




This. Completely.



OP, you give some of the most rational advice I've seen on here. I know it's harder when you're in the position, but if another member posted exactly what you have what would you tell them?