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    • Yes, you have a right to be angry. -- Votes: 13
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All gone! ☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
12th Apr '13

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!

Mom[Oh] 2 kids; Fort Wayne, IN, United States 615 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Erica ☆★:</b>" PLEASE DON'T QUOTE! OPEN MINDED PEOPLE ONLY PLEASE. Okay my SO smokes weed. I don't care, he doesn't ... [snip!] ... not talking but the fact that SO defends her and doesn't see why i'm mad just makes it that much harder for me to let it go.."</blockquote>




Id be pissed...
doing something illegal for a b***h.
and personally it sounds like she wants ur guy...
Ignoring u and going to him is super disrespectful

☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Mama♡MoriYah :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Erica ☆★:</b>" PLEASE DON'T QUOTE! OPEN MINDED ... [snip!] ... illegal for a b***h. and personally it sounds like she wants ur guy... Ignoring u and going to him is super disrespectful"


Ya know i've thought that before but I keep brushing it off. If she does, good luck lol I don't mean to sound cocky but she's not really someone i'm worried about.

Mom[Oh] 2 kids; Fort Wayne, IN, United States 615 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Erica ☆★:</b>" Ya know i've thought that before but I keep brushing it off. If she does, good luck lol I don't mean to sound cocky but she's not really someone i'm worried about. "</blockquote>




But if your SO is willing to get her weed for her (which he apparently doesn't even do for himself) I would be wondering.

☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
12th Apr '13

Yeah, that kind of threw me off too. I really don't feel like she's a threat though, she's more like another guy friend to him. He said he didn't think about it that much at the time, but now he sees how stupid it was. He better lol

Dr. Elliot Reid ; 1 child; New Zealand 8930 posts
12th Apr '13

Wow, I would not be okay with any of that, but maybe im just close minded.

☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Elliot Reid:" Wow, I would not be okay with any of that, but maybe im just close minded."


lol smoking weed in general?

Dr. Elliot Reid ; 1 child; New Zealand 8930 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Erica ☆★:" lol smoking weed in general? "

Every day, yeah. Occasionally is fine

☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Elliot Reid:" Every day, yeah. Occasionally is fine"


It's really like a hit or two a day, and he smokes it in the bathroom with the fan on away from the baby. I wouldn't be with him if it was excessive, but a hit or two isn't bad.

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3279 posts
12th Apr '13

To some people, every day would be considered excessive... just depends what you've become used to, I guess. And how dependent he is on it... could he quit? Would he if you asked him to now that he has a family? If he got caught, would he drop it cold turkey? Cuz no matter the amount, if he gets caught more than once, he's going to end up in trouble. I think you're being a little hypocritical and just trying to justify his usage. Whether it's a couple of grams or an ounce, it's all illegal...
Oh and hiding in the bathroom to smoke every day is not a "social smoker"... again, I don't think you're as "ok" with it as you're trying to sound...

Princess Celestia +1 1 child; Tallahassee, Florida 3636 posts
12th Apr '13

I'd be pretty furious with him, but I wouldn't be mad at her since it was his decision to do that. I would be a little sketched out about the closeness of them, though.

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 21324 posts
status 12th Apr '13

Meh. It was a one time thing. We occasionally get an ounce at a time, once 2 ounces when we got a good deal on it. Nothing happened, it doesn't sound like he even thought about it and was just doing it to be nice and get his own pot, lol. I doubt he'll do it again.

☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Mud:" To some people, every day would be considered excessive... just depends what you've become used to, I ... [snip!] ... to smoke every day is not a "social smoker"... again, I don't think you're as "ok" with it as you're trying to sound..."


True. And honestly, idk if he would. Okay, he would but it would be a big fight and he would probably resent me. I don't want to say he has a problem with it though, he just enjoys it. He doesn't need it. He did quit for awhile cold turkey right when I found out I was pregnant and he used to smoke a lot more back then. But we fought about it a lot. He's just very pro weed. He's so supportive of it becoming legal, it's like his favorite debate topic. He did it before we started dating too so it's something i've grown to accept..



How am I being hypocritical? I don't mind him smoking, as long as he keeps it at a minimum and away from the baby. I just don't want him running his friends illegal errands.



And maybe you're right. I don't exactly know how I feel about the fact that he smokes a little everyday...but I know it doesn't bug me enough to start arguing with him about it because arguing with him about weed is like arguing with a wall. I know it didn't bug me this much until he put everything on the line for an ounce though.

☆ Erica 1 child; Flat Rock, Michigan 1439 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Princess Celestia [11]:" I'd be pretty furious with him, but I wouldn't be mad at her since it was his decision to do that. I would be a little sketched out about the closeness of them, though."


I know it was his decision and i'm not blaming her for the whole situation, but I just want her to understand that now that he has a family, he can't be running and grabbing her weed like that. It's not like the place was right down the street. And when I texted her to tell her to come over so we could talk it out she ignored me. That definitely did not help.

Mrs.Mud 6 kids; 2 angel babies; North Dakota 3279 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Erica ☆★:" True. And honestly, idk if he would. Okay, he would but it would be a big fight and he would probably ... [snip!] ... weed is like arguing with a wall. I know it didn't bug me this much until he put everything on the line for an ounce though. "


No addict *needs* the thing they're addicted too... they just think they do. Just like my husband doesn't *need* his chew, he's just f**king addicted to it. But at least it's not illegal. Maybe hypocritical isn't the right word, but I think what you're not realizing is that he IS putting everything on the line. What he's doing is illegal and he's doing it in the same house his infant daughter is in. He gets caught, you could both get investigated and she could get taken away, even just for a short amount of time, because they'll drug test you too. I'm not anti-weed, I'm just anti-weed until (if) it becomes legal, kwim? I just feel like blowing up at him over fetching someone else an oz but being cool with him smoking every day in your house... just feels out of proportion somehow. It's early and I'm tired and my words are not coming out right, lol.