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feel so disrespected ! miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
12th Apr '13

PLEASE DONT QUOTE::



Okay so My ex was all on me saying he loves me and wants to be a family, and ive said no only because he can't prove to me that he truly loves me and wants to be with me.. Well he has been sleeping on my couch and still saying he loves me and stuff and we've been talking.. he mentioned making a POF account and I said "thats cool but your not doing it on my computer" and he didn't say anything.. fast forward I went out last night to my moms and came home and went to find a link in the history and i seen he had made a POF account and shit.. I feel disrespected right there, I know it's silly but i feel like you don't use your ex's computer to go on a dating site that is like me using his cell to text a guy...
Also a bit hurt he was claiming to love me and wanna be a family than does this shit.. I told him it would take time and councling and anger management and us living apart to see if we could work it out.. kinda glad i didn't now..



I know I am being silly but am i dumb for feeling disrespected??
I was and do sorta see someone and I want him to be happy but the main reason I am upset is he just was saying he loved me and would prove to me he did and wanted his family back... he knew about the other guy as well..

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45800 posts
12th Apr '13

He wants to be with you, you don't want to be with him and you don't want him to be with anyone else?



That's what I got from reading this.



If you don't want him there touching your stuff, ask him to move out.

The Pretender 2 kids; Brazil 1215 posts
12th Apr '13

You're not silly. You were broken up for a reason and you told him your expectations if you were to ever consider him again and he failed to live up to them. Kick him out.

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting speaktruth2powr:</b>" He wants to be with you, you don't want to be with him and you don't want him to be with anyone else? ... [snip!] ... anyone else? That's what I got from reading this. If you don't want him there touching your stuff, ask him to move out."</blockquote>




:!: uh yeah.

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" He wants to be with you, you don't want to be with him and you don't want him to be with anyone else? ... [snip!] ... anyone else? That's what I got from reading this. If you don't want him there touching your stuff, ask him to move out."

lol he is just staying until the 16th so he can get to work and see the kids than he moves into his own place... he is def moving out..

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45800 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" lol he is just staying until the 16th so he can get to work and see the kids than he moves into his own place... he is def moving out.. "


So what is the issue?



He made an account to a dating site on your computer, big deal.

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting The Pretender:" You're not silly. You were broken up for a reason and you told him your expectations if you were to ever consider him again and he failed to live up to them. Kick him out."

See the actual POF dont bother me, him telling me he loves me and wants us back is what made me mad.. because that's not proving he wants me back by making a POF "for friends"....

Good Queen Bess 2 kids; Ontario 45800 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" See the actual POF dont bother me, him telling me he loves me and wants us back is what made me mad.. because that's not proving he wants me back by making a POF "for friends".... "


Why did you guys break up in the first place?

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" So what is the issue? He made an account to a dating site on your computer, big deal."

bc that same day he was saying he wanted me back and he loves me and wants to be a family and prove he loves me and he knows how he messed up?? that's why I am mad, i also asked him to please not make a POF account while he is staying here because its awkward..

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18065 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:</b>" bc that same day he was saying he wanted me back and he loves me and wants to be a family and prove he ... [snip!] ... up?? that's why I am mad, i also asked him to please not make a POF account while he is staying here because its awkward.. "</blockquote>




It's awkward because you made it awkward.

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Why did you guys break up in the first place?"

I broke up with him because he he wasn't acting like he loved me, he was always at my female friends venting to her and not talking things out with me, he was misriable at his shit job and took it out on us and he had a temper..
he is happier now that he got a better job and has been alot nicer to us and he is the one who brought up trying again so it makes me a tad mad he would say all that than join a dating website to me that proves nothing..

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" He wants to be with you, you don't want to be with him and you don't want him to be with anyone else? ... [snip!] ... anyone else? That's what I got from reading this. If you don't want him there touching your stuff, ask him to move out."


:!:
"Sleep on my couch but I am limiting what websites you can visit"

He's an adult. If my husband told me to prove I loved him I would probably smack him upside the head. If you don't want to be with him great, but who cares if he dates other people?

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:" :!: "Sleep on my couch but I am limiting what websites you can visit" He's an adult. If my husband ... [snip!] ... him I would probably smack him upside the head. If you don't want to be with him great, but who cares if he dates other people?"

lol reading that makes me feel bad now.. that's why i needed to talk to other ladies about this to clear my head and get an outsiders percpective.. and I am not sure If i want to be with him, we had to do these things and see if we were going to get back together is why I am mad..
however i think I was silly now and shall just say what the hell!

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs.Josh Ramsay:" lol reading that makes me feel bad now.. that's why i needed to talk to other ladies about this to clear ... [snip!] ... see if we were going to get back together is why I am mad.. however i think I was silly now and shall just say what the hell! "


:wink:
I would suggest you take a hard look and decide if you want to give your relationship another chance, if not you need to be okay with that because he won't be yours. It sounds like you aren't okay with not being together.

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Smartass *Preggo!*:" :wink: I would suggest you take a hard look and decide if you want to give your relationship another ... [snip!] ... chance, if not you need to be okay with that because he won't be yours. It sounds like you aren't okay with not being together."

I would love to give it another shot.. but i have friends who wouldn't be in my life anymore if i choose to do so, and bully me into pushing him away because i don't want to be isolated if it doesn't work out again.. than ill have to hear i told u so.. ugh..