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12th Apr '13

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Pnire:] 2 kids; Utah 1097 posts
12th Apr '13

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user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
12th Apr '13

Exactly. Thanks for the feedback. :) Could you unquote my post, please? I'm wanting to erase it soon.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Apr '13

So he's never done anything to be your partner and teammate, you moved, he didn't come with you even though you have his child, and he isn't 100% coming to his kids bday? And your parents hate him enough to not let him stay at their house?



Sounds like a forever kind of deal. Match made in heaven. Definitely spend the test of your life with him. Hell, I say TTC.

Pnire:] 2 kids; Utah 1097 posts
12th Apr '13

I'm sorry!



I totally read not to quote...
And I did it anyway haha




Morning brain!

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" So he's never done anything to be your partner and teammate, you moved, he didn't come with you even ... [snip!] ... Sounds like a forever kind of deal. Match made in heaven. Definitely spend the test of your life with him. Hell, I say TTC."</blockquote>



Heyyyy Red Bottom, I was hoping you'd reply. :P



Yeah. I know the choices I've made where he is concerned are totally moronic. I've broken up with him a few times and was guilt tripped back into it. I really need to stand my ground with this.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Pnire:]:</b>" I'm sorry! I totally read not to quote... And I did it anyway haha Morning brain!"</blockquote>



No worries. Thanks! :)

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom-moo:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" So he's never done anything to be your partner ... [snip!] ... moronic. I've broken up with him a few times and was guilt tripped back into it. I really need to stand my ground with this."</blockquote>




So stop setting limits and just start using your brain. No more "if he, then I". You're wasting both of you're time, hoping for an easier way out. It's going to be hard regardless, but obviously you know what the best choice is.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom-moo:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... of you're time, hoping for an easier way out. It's going to be hard regardless, but obviously you know what the best choice is."</blockquote>



My self respect is basically gone. It's a cruddy situation and I'm wanting to make the right choices where my daughter is concerned.



I appreciate the feedback, guys!

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom-moo:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom-moo:</b>" ... [snip!] ... a cruddy situation and I'm wanting to make the right choices where my daughter is concerned. I appreciate the feedback, guys!"</blockquote>



Be a good example of what to expect in a relationship.

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom-moo:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Red Bottom:</b>" ... [snip!] ... is concerned. I appreciate the feedback, guys!"</blockquote> Be a good example of what to expect in a relationship."</blockquote>



I'll keep reminding myself of that.