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to be exspected Charlie's Lovely Mommy 1 child; Granville, Massachusetts 1794 posts
12th Apr '13

BD and I decided to not mke it work right now. He just got out of detox, and we still have so long to go before we could do this. We just wanted it so f**king badly. It's just not fair that we both have to have this sickness. I just want him. But I also want drugs, and let's see how well that's turned out for me. We agreed that we want to continue spending as much time together, just without the sex.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Apr '13

Do you think that's the best idea for both of your sobriety?

Charlie's Lovely Mommy 1 child; Granville, Massachusetts 1794 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Red Bottom:" Do you think that's the best idea for both of your sobriety?"


What to spend time with him? Why wouldn't it be? I just know that we should be having sex and acting like a couple.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
12th Apr '13

That sounds like a terrible idea. Being around each other is likely to make you both start using drugs again



personally, I would be spending as little time with him as I could, to avoid a replapse

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:</b>" What to spend time with him? Why wouldn't it be? I just know that we should be having sex and acting like a couple."</blockquote>




Because you both have the same impulse problems.

ERMAGHERD BEEDS! 17 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4099 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:</b>" BD and I decided to not mke it work right now. He just got out of detox, and we still have so long to ... [snip!] ... see how well that's turned out for me. We agreed that we want to continue spending as much time together, just without the sex."</blockquote>




You're making a really hard decision, but it's the right one for right now and you should be SOOOOO proud of yourself

Charlie's Lovely Mommy 1 child; Granville, Massachusetts 1794 posts
12th Apr '13

He's been a really good friend though.

Charlie's Lovely Mommy 1 child; Granville, Massachusetts 1794 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Cheeks mom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:</b>" BD and I decided to not mke it ... [snip!] ... You're making a really hard decision, but it's the right one for right now and you should be SOOOOO proud of yourself"


Thank you. It was a really hard decision. Because we both want to be together. But we aren't in the right place to. But right now we're repairing friendship, and showing our son that the three of us can spend some nice time together without mommy and daddy being high or fighting.

user banned TTC since Apr 2014; 2 kids; Middelfart, Denmark 15320 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:</b>" He's been a really good friend though."</blockquote>




Because you both have the same weakness.

ERMAGHERD BEEDS! 17 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4099 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:</b>" Thank you. It was a really hard decision. Because we both want to be together. But we aren't in the ... [snip!] ... and showing our son that the three of us can spend some nice time together without mommy and daddy being high or fighting."</blockquote>




It'll only serve to make your relationship stronger if you choose to have one in the future. And it's really good modeling for your son

Charlie's Lovely Mommy 1 child; Granville, Massachusetts 1794 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Cheeks mom:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Charlie's Lovely Mommy:</b>" Thank you. It was a really hard ... [snip!] ... serve to make your relationship stronger if you choose to have one in the future. And it's really good modeling for your son"


Thanks, I'm just trying not to feel sad about it.