Would your SO A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
12th Apr '13


Be mad if you didnt tell him you were masturbating/ masturbating alone?

Someone please explain to me if this is normal and if other guys react the same way....

tee.air.rah 1 child; California 1184 posts
12th Apr '13

My dh wouldn't be mad he' say something like "aw you're having all the fun without me. You could at least let me watch". I don't think anger is a normal reaction, maybe he just feels left out, or wants to please you himself.

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
12th Apr '13

SO wouldn't care. He yelled in from outside once and I yelled back "Just a minute" and came out there all winded and breathing heavy. He's like "Did I catch you masturbating" with a big ole smile on his face. He does it, I do it, we have sex, it's not a big deal.

The Blissful Six 4 kids; 1 angel baby; Massachusetts 10260 posts
12th Apr '13

DH and I don't share that info with each other. I'm pretty sure he doesn't want to know and I don't care or want to know if he does.
I think it's silly for someone's SO to get upset over it. Unless it's replacing the sex in the relationship.

=^•^= Due December 1; NO, OD, France 35233 posts
status 12th Apr '13

I don't know if its normal but my DH gets mad over it. I couldn't care if he did it a million times a day however.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
12th Apr '13

No, and no. That doesn't seem normal at all. It seems controlling and weird. If my husband got mad at me for not telling him every time I double clicked the ol' mouse I'd wonder wtf was wrong with him.

ღ Diana ღ Michigan 15726 posts
12th Apr '13

No as a matter of fact he is turned on by the thought of it.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
12th Apr '13

I don't think mad perse but hurt probably. We pretty much try to fulfill each others needs. I would be hurt if he was so I would like to say he would too. But idk for sure.

✩BG Addict +2 1/2 Due October 7; 2 kids; Ashtabula, OH, United States 25700 posts
12th Apr '13

the only reason i could see someone getting mad at their SO for that is if they were masturbating and not having sex.

SO wouldn't give a shit one way or the other. if i do, i do, if i don't i don't.

{tamz} Due April 19; 2 kids; Maryland 2541 posts
12th Apr '13

Not at all. It's a healthy and natural thing and we both encourage the other to enjoy personal time sometimes.

whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
12th Apr '13

My ex didn't care as long as I wasn't masturbating instead of having sex with him. :lol:
I've actually never met a guy that has gotten mad over me masturbating.

homes cool Due July 25; 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Indiana 63165 posts
12th Apr '13

If I was doing it because I wasn't satisfied with him, or if I was withholding myself from him...I think he'd be a little hurt. Not angry, but hurt.

JΔ$ 2 kids; Georgia 84177 posts
status 12th Apr '13

No, I don't think so. My husband goes to the field often so I masturbate regularly :lol:

MomNextDoor 2 kids; Grapevine, Texas 8345 posts
12th Apr '13

No. When I accidentally leave my vibrator out and DH finds it, he actually thinks it's hot. Lol.

Ravey Candyass 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Boston, Massachusetts 106768 posts
status 12th Apr '13

i don't masturbate, but no, he wouldn't be mad. just like i'm not mad when he does it.