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Men and Sex? unexpectedlil#2 Due December 7; 1 child; Oklahoma 26 posts
12th Apr '13

Does anyone else have a partner who doesnt care to have sex everyday?? My partner can happily go 3-4 days without intimacy. Its so frustrating for me. We are both at work or at home together. He is just a withdrawn person in general and wont offer any sex ever. I have to initiate it almost everytime. Sometimes after 4-5 days of nothing he may be frustrated (in that way) and i will wake up in the middle of the night with him fully prepared and getting on top of me. Dont get me wrong, at this point im all for it cuz its been days of me wanting and getting nothing! But then it happens really fast cuz were both half asleep. Its disappointing.

Phallus Cranium cocksuck, LA, Sri Lanka 109250 posts
12th Apr '13

nope, can't say I have that problem with dh.

Purple Pumpkin Tits 2 kids; 8484 posts
12th Apr '13

Lets switch SO's. Mine wants it allllllll the time and I want it never. It's annoying really.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting unexpectedlil#2:</b>" Does anyone else have a partner who doesnt care to have sex everyday?? My partner can happily go 3-4 ... [snip!] ... its been days of me wanting and getting nothing! But then it happens really fast cuz were both half asleep. Its disappointing. "</blockquote>




He's only like that when I was pregnant. But it was horrible :(

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
12th Apr '13

Girl, yes. My sex drive has always been higher than his.. I want it every day, and my SO will gladly go a whole week without it. Maybe longer if I didn't mention it or try to initiate anything. It's frustrating for me as well. He's recently told me he thinks there's something wrong with his prostate, but he's always had a low sex drive (recently it has been worse, though). So.. I definitely get where you're coming from. I'm suffering right along with you. Let's just say my vibrator has been getting some good use lately..

Mari-C 18 kids; Nebraska 3695 posts
12th Apr '13

I'm like that...but bc DH can have sex everrryday! I'm ok with 3 or 4 times in one day and no sex for 2-3 days...but he can have sex 2-3 times a day then again at night..and when we wake up:shock:

[Gryffinwhore♥] 3 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 34632 posts
status 12th Apr '13

Ha. I just posted about something like this. lol.



Mine doesn't want to have sex everyday because he lacks sensation in his p***s. It's very hard for him to get off, so sex is just a lot of work for him. He feels like he'll disappoint me if he doesn't finish.



Usually it's only a couple of times a week. And I would LIKE to be having sex everyday or every other day. lol.



It's weird. I've never been with someone who doesn't want sex all the time.

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
12th Apr '13

SO gets like that when his boss makes him work several open-close days & he is exhausted.

Amanda.M 2 kids; St Albans, Vermont 890 posts
12th Apr '13

My SO has been like that since I have been pregnant. =[ I am a very sexual person and like to have sex everyday. We used to do it at least once a day, but now it is more like 1 maybe 2 tinmes a week! =[

unexpectedlil#2 Due December 7; 1 child; Oklahoma 26 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting LayLu:" Girl, yes. My sex drive has always been higher than his.. I want it every day, and my SO will gladly ... [snip!] ... you're coming from. I'm suffering right along with you. Let's just say my vibrator has been getting some good use lately.."


It bothers me a lot. I havent been insecure since i was 16 but this is ridiculous. Plus i've never met ANY other man like him. People are like maybe hes gay.... It makes me mad because i know he's not. His childhood was weird and hes just different. But i need him to be considerate of my feelings. And this was going on long before i was ever pregnant!

unexpectedlil#2 Due December 7; 1 child; Oklahoma 26 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting [Gryffinwhore♥]:" Ha. I just posted about something like this. lol. Mine doesn't want to have sex everyday because he ... [snip!] ... be having sex everyday or every other day. lol. It's weird. I've never been with someone who doesn't want sex all the time. "

I havent been with anyone who doesnt want to either. I cant believe what your guy is going thru. Wish mine could wake up with that problem for a day so maybe he wouldnt take sex opportunities for granted anymore. But even for you, he should do it often. Besides, a couple hours at a time is not a bad thing :)

ßlack Rose ♥ 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Sharon, OK, United States 5335 posts
12th Apr '13

Mine could go a couple months without it and not even masturbate either. Sucks for me because I eat, sleep and breathe sex lol.

unexpectedlil#2 Due December 7; 1 child; Oklahoma 26 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Amanda.M:" My SO has been like that since I have been pregnant. =[ I am a very sexual person and like to have sex ... [snip!] ... person and like to have sex everyday. We used to do it at least once a day, but now it is more like 1 maybe 2 tinmes a week! =["


Im sure now that im pregnant it'll be 10-11 mos before i get ANYTHING else out of him!!! UGHHH!!

unexpectedlil#2 Due December 7; 1 child; Oklahoma 26 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:" Mine could go a couple months without it and not even masturbate either. Sucks for me because I eat, sleep and breathe sex lol."


yep. mine doesnt masturbate either. maybe it doesnt feel as good to them as its supposed to? idk. but i want to everyday!!!! i hate it! hes inconsiderate of my feelings too!

LayLu (girl); 17 kids; Virginia 4007 posts
12th Apr '13
Quoting unexpectedlil#2:" It bothers me a lot. I havent been insecure since i was 16 but this is ridiculous. Plus i've never met ... [snip!] ... and hes just different. But i need him to be considerate of my feelings. And this was going on long before i was ever pregnant!"


Me too. I recently had a talk with him about how much it f**ks with my confidence, especially since I'm 30 weeks pregnant and feel like a beached whale, and he keeps reassuring me it's nothing I'm doing.. he just doesn't want it. I don't think he realizes just how much it brings me down, though. But we're slowly working on it. Yesterday I texted him and was telling him if he really thinks it's his prostate, I really want him to get it checked because the fact that he doesn't want me really brings me down. I guess he took the hint that that meant I needed sex and we ended up having really great sex last night. Normally he doesn't do the foreplay thing, but he was all over me last night, I loved it. Now I just need him to keep it up, but I don't wanna get my hopes up..