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Butt Sex. [Gryffinwhore♥] Due March 3; 34 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 32852 posts
status 12th Apr '13

So, last night the BF and I were talking about sex. I pretty much want to have sex everyday. And he doesn't. He told me that it's because he doesn't have a ton of feeling. Whenever he's solo, he just uses a dry hand. But he's also pretty rough with his p***s. He doesn't know if he lacks feeling because of that, or if he does it that way because he lacks feeling.



Anywho, I had the bright idea to try anal. :oops: I figured it would be tighter for him than my lady parts (since I've squeezed out 2 spawn) and make it easier for him to get off. He was actually excited by the idea and wanted to do it right away, which we did.



It wasn't TOO bad. He was pretty gentle and he's not HUGE, so it wasn't super painful.



I guess what I'm looking for are ways to make it not painful at all. And ways to make it more enjoyable for ME. Because while I didn't hate it, I also didn't LOVE it. lol.

*021013* 2 kids; 1 angel baby; xxx, OH, United States 3816 posts
12th Apr '13

Get yourself all turned on, like super turned on, and use lots of lube :)

vagina. 3 kids; Titz, No, Germany 30924 posts
12th Apr '13

Lots of lube and clitoral stimulation!

Mama Rice 34 kids; North Las Vegas, Nevada 11980 posts
12th Apr '13

I hate it too, but if I get off once or twice before it hurts less from all the lubrication.

A&J. ♥ 1 child; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 5613 posts
12th Apr '13

Oh geez.... For me the only way it was bearable is when we laid on our sides, and he used lots and lots of lube. And I always took a shit before hand

user banned Due January 20; 33 kids; North Carolina 14662 posts
12th Apr '13

Use a toy at the same time.
All I can think of, and my advice can't really be taken as I've not done it.
Thinking about it being DH's homecoming present though.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
12th Apr '13

Luuuube!!! I've tried several times with DH, he's too big lol I hate the feeling though.. Like you're gonna shit yourself :/

[Gryffinwhore♥] Due March 3; 34 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 32852 posts
status 12th Apr '13
Quoting A&J. ♥:" Oh geez.... For me the only way it was bearable is when we laid on our sides, and he used lots and lots of lube. And I always took a shit before hand"


hahaha.
There wasn't that much planning involved. I was talking about it, and then he pulled off my shorts and said "Let's try it!" :o

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
12th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting i made a vagina.:</b>" Lots of lube and clitoral stimulation!"</blockquote>




!!!

Amanda.M 2 kids; St Albans, Vermont 890 posts
12th Apr '13

I happen to really like anal. What I find works for me is to start out with having regular sex first and get really turned on. Use LOTS of lube and add clitoral stimulation. I like doing it in either the d***y s***e or m********y p******n. Also you can try and use a vibrator at the same time, either just on your c**t or as d****e p*********n. Good luck and enjoy! =]

[Gryffinwhore♥] Due March 3; 34 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 32852 posts
status 12th Apr '13
Quoting Pirate Hooker {BAMW}:" Use a toy at the same time. All I can think of, and my advice can't really be taken as I've not done it. Thinking about it being DH's homecoming present though."


I'm looking into a toy. I haven't bought one yet because I didn't want to make him feel bad.

K and N TTC since Nov 2012; 2 kids; Denver City, Texas 1890 posts
12th Apr '13

Baby oil... and rub your c**t, before and during.



I've been trying to get use to it for 3 years... and I still don't LOVE it!

[Gryffinwhore♥] Due March 3; 34 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 32852 posts
status 12th Apr '13
Quoting Amanda.M:" I happen to really like anal. What I find works for me is to start out with having regular sex first ... [snip!] ... you can try and use a vibrator at the same time, either just on your c**t or as d****e p*********n. Good luck and enjoy! =]"


It's not that I didn't like it. Once I got over the initial stretch, I was okay. It mostly just burned. lol. I've had BAD experiences with anal in my past relationship. Pretty much got drunk, lubed up, and shoved a p***s in my butt. And that guy was a LOT bigger than my current BF. lol.

[Gryffinwhore♥] Due March 3; 34 kids; Poulsbo, Washington 32852 posts
status 12th Apr '13

Thanks for all the replies ladies! Looks like we'll be taking a trip to the adult store this afternoon. haha.

Mama Mallo (: 2 kids; Texas 6514 posts
12th Apr '13

My bf is the same way. Anyway, I rub my c**t while he enters. Its still painful at first, but will feel good after a bit. Also, the more often you do it.. the less it will hurt.