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BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
15th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting .Colleen.:</b>" Is he open to medication or therapy for the stress/anxiety? I know most men are not, which makes ... [snip!] ... You would never forgive yourslf or him :( I am glad that you recognize how serious it is getting and I wish I could help you"</blockquote>




He agreed to couples counseling.



I really hate that I have come to just THINKING of hitting him....I'm not even a spanking type of parent....the opposite actually I am more AP then anything.



I definitely need to go to counseling for myself either way....I feel like my self esteem is probably shot to shit

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
15th Apr '13

I have to go but thank you ladies so much for responding and for your advice

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" I have to go but thank you ladies so much for responding and for your advice"

Best of luck.

Phallus Cranium fuknutz, NM, Togo 103242 posts
status 15th Apr '13
Quoting BG Secrets:" I have to go but thank you ladies so much for responding and for your advice"


Best of luck to you
I hope if you are not able to work it out you have the strength to leave.

BG Secrets Arizona 4906 posts
15th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Will☮Creedence:</b>" I understand. I felt the exact same way, it took me until my son was almost 2 to leave. I feel like I ... [snip!] ... and are happier than ever). You will feel so much better once you leave and can focus on yourself and your child. I know I did."</blockquote>




That's exactly how I feel....I don't want a mindset like this anymore...We spent almost a week a part once...he was screaming at me/slamming things so loud during a fight the neighbors called the cops...I asked him to leave and during that week we were separated I felt soo much better. Like a shadow had been lifted or something. I guess I can't keep waiting for him to just wake up and change. It's been years and years of this.