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I am like two seconds from losing my mind!!!!! Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13


*POOF*

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13

And now I feel a bit better. Thank you, that is all.

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
15th Apr '13

I swear we could be living the same life at times... Wanna have a drink or 5 with me??

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29662 posts
15th Apr '13

Kill him in his sleep. Problem solved.

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting tinana+2:" Kill him in his sleep. Problem solved."



oooh...I like this

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting hi puddin:" I swear we could be living the same life at times... Wanna have a drink or 5 with me??"


How about 20 comatose sounds good, and I am sorry you are going through this too.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29662 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Just Ames:"


It's just horrible to me that she feels obligated to give him what he wants so he doesn't get it somewhere else. If I ever felt that I had to do that so DH didn't go somewhere else, I'd think it was time to end it. It's part of being in a relationship, it's 50/50. We're in this together over here.

:cry: OP, I'm sorry!

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting tinana+2:" Kill him in his sleep. Problem solved."


Too tempting. . . My real thought is take the kids get pass ports and run off the Greece XD

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29662 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Akeema:" Too tempting. . . My real thought is take the kids get pass ports and run off the Greece XD"


Your idea is probably best in the longrun. Your children need you. Stay strong.

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Just Ames:" Right. He's the problem. Drop the dead weight. And I know it's hard to see this right now but they're ... [snip!] ... this right now but they're kids. Of course they need you and do not understand boundaries :( I hope you can get a break soon."


If only it were that easy. T_T



I know they are and I love my babies so much it kills me when I start getting angry at them the oldest is 4 and he's been through so much with me I can't imagine life with out him and the youngest is 9 months and this poor baby has already been through so much that I hate my self because I can't help him.

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting tinana+2:" It's just horrible to me that she feels obligated to give him what he wants so he doesn't get it somewhere ... [snip!] ... time to end it. It's part of being in a relationship, it's 50/50. We're in this together over here. :cry: OP, I'm sorry!"


It's okay, he's trying to do better he really is it's just he's an ass at times and after being hurt as a child I have issues with sex to begin with. He has been helping me at night, but not as much as he should/could and I just feel like I'm being walked on.



We are really trying to make this work because we do love each other and want to have a family together I'm just so fed up with the feeling like I have to sleep with him. He thinks that when we got married it gave him all rights to my body, I hate that about him but he is trying to not be so pushy just some times he can be a real ass.

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Just Ames:" What do you mean?"


He has had RSV, deals with Asthma, he has had the stomach flu, and a heart murmur and now he's teething and I have tried every trick in the book to help him feel better but he's in so much pain and on top of that his allergies are acting up again making it hard for him to sleep.

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting tinana+2:" Your idea is probably best in the longrun. Your children need you. Stay strong. "



If only I knew Greek . . . lol

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Just Ames:" Is he on meds? My Son had RAD with allergies and the only medicine that helped him was Singulair. I remember he was an infant when he started it but he was closer to a year old."


They keep telling me that he's too young to put on anything. It is really getting on my last nerve. I just want to help him and they keep blocking me on everything!

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6099 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Just Ames:" Umm, I'd get a second opinion girl. Have you at least tried benadryl? Is he on breathing treatments? ... [snip!] ... treatments? RSV can cause breathing difficulties for a while after he is better. Have they mentioned reactive airway disease?"


I have talked to two different doctors and they both told me there is nothing any more under the age of 1. Yes he has a nebulizer, and no they haven't even said it is Asthma but I have asthma and know the symptoms and what it is like.