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Oh confusion --K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
15th Apr '13

I miss my ex, I still remember why we broke up and how rude and immature he was at times (and posessive, and jelous he was getting for no reason) but I miss him.



Everytime I get stressed or upset I wish he was around.



I'm just confused because I don't know if it is him I'm missing or the stability I felt and thought I was going to have with him.

itslex_xo Due July 16 (girl); 1 child; St. Petersburg, Florida 16 posts
16th Apr '13

Some people never change. If you broke up, maybe you aren't meant to be? You would probably still have the same problems all over again unless he is really ready to change and work on it. You probably miss having the stability, I too was once in the same boat.....

--K-- 2 kids; Romania 3189 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting itslex_xo:" Some people never change. If you broke up, maybe you aren't meant to be? You would probably still have ... [snip!] ... he is really ready to change and work on it. You probably miss having the stability, I too was once in the same boat....."


That's the truth.
I didn't even stick around to see if it would change or not with him.
We had the same arguments over a few months though.



Now he's been in bootcamp for however long that is lol. He seems to have changed some but I don't know if it is going to stick.



I stayed with DS#1's dad for two years hopeing he would change and all I got was shit in return so that kinda made me not want to do that again.