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Everything is so hard! Liz +3 Due August 3 (boy); 2 kids; Alabama 171 posts
15th Apr '13

My ex husband and I divorced..
It's actually been really hard on me even though it was my decision to leave.
We were both in over our heads debt wise and it caused us so many more issues.
Plus with his family not liking me it always put a lot of stress on us both..
He always chose them and we just fought.
We have kids together.. and even though we haven't been divorced long (2 months) he is supposedly already engaged... makes me wonder.. like how in two months can you just move on that fast???? I am just emotional I guess. It's life though.. could be worse. I just have to focus on the future!!! :)

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
15th Apr '13

Either he was cheating and knew her before or he's a raging idiot.

Liz +3 Due August 3 (boy); 2 kids; Alabama 171 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Dr. Paradigm Shift:" Either he was cheating and knew her before or he's a raging idiot. "



Exactly what I was thinking.. lol

hi puddin 4 kids; Lawrence, Kansas 2118 posts
15th Apr '13

I never understand people who can move on that fast... ridiculous...

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Liz Barnhill:" Exactly what I was thinking.. lol"


what a douche. Sorry, man. That sucks.

Liz +3 Due August 3 (boy); 2 kids; Alabama 171 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting hi puddin:" I never understand people who can move on that fast... ridiculous..."


Makes you wonder!!
7 years and it's like we never happened lol.
AND he has the nerves to bring her with him when he gets the kids for his visit. :) I'm nice though because I figure if he can do it to me he will do it to her...

Back to Noob Status Ohio 14048 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting hi puddin:" I never understand people who can move on that fast... ridiculous..."


:!:



I have a cousin who jumped from one guy (her ex-fiance) to another (now fiance) in a month's time. Engaged again within three months of breaking up with the first guy.



I also have an uncle on his third marriage. The ink on his divorce papers was barely dry when he hooked up with wife number 3! :shock:

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
15th Apr '13
Quoting Liz Barnhill:" Makes you wonder!! 7 years and it's like we never happened lol. AND he has the nerves to bring her ... [snip!] ... with him when he gets the kids for his visit. :) I'm nice though because I figure if he can do it to me he will do it to her..."

You're much nicer than I would be, my dear.

Kaleighshaleigh 3 kids; USA 5702 posts
15th Apr '13

Wow...moving on that fast makes me think that divorce #2 will be in his near future. Don't worry about him. Focus on you and your kids and you'll be fine.

Lucid Dreamer Florida 3821 posts
16th Apr '13

In due time you will be glad it happened. The right man will come in your life and you will be happier than you ever were before. More often than you first have to goe through the dark tunnel before you reach the light.

proudmoma Massillon, Ohio 5 posts
16th Apr '13

Men do not move on fast .They just never show their emotions