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WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
16th Apr '13

Really?? You just "didn't notice" that DD is puking miserable ill, fed her fast food all weekend as far as I know, she has a raging fever, and you have your head shoved so far up some skank hoe's vagina all weekend to even f**king notice??? Because, clearly the logical explanation is she was sick last week, PERFECTLY WELL ALL DAMN WEEKEND WITH YOU, and deathly ill again starting Monday.



f**king MORON.

LittleBear's mama 3 kids; Ontario 480 posts
16th Apr '13

Some men are completely oblivious, and never take responsibility for crap that is totally their fault. They like to be 'the fun ones' while we are the meanies. :( Be strong mama, karma is a b***h and he will get his in the end. Just do what you do best and take care of your LOs. Even when he brings them back sick...I know the feeling, did it for over a year and still do on occassion. Brings them back to me sick...

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LittleBear's mama:</b>" Some men are completely oblivious, and never take responsibility for crap that is totally their fault. ... [snip!] ... he brings them back sick...I know the feeling, did it for over a year and still do on occassion. Brings them back to me sick..."</blockquote>




I'm just disgusted. He claims she wasn't sick at all ALL weekend, I know he had his on/off fuckbuddy there all weekend like usual, so DD was ill all weekend and he was too busy gettin laid to even notice! So now I have to take off work to stay home with a miserable toddler, wrack up even more daycare I can't even pay for because I'm not getting hours.
And clearly she's only sick when she's here, so we must be horrible parents and we're doing something wrong. Because that totally makes sense. It couldn't possibly be that he's too busy getting laid when he's supposed to be taking care of her and doesn't even notice she's ill. I mean, how can a parent really do that??

LittleBear's mama 3 kids; Ontario 480 posts
16th Apr '13

Been there for sure. My daughter used to call my place saying she was hungry, when i would ask where her dad was she would say he is in bed sleeping. I live like three houses from my ex and i would just tell her to come home and i would feed her. My ex has been reckless with the kids off and on for the last three years. They would stay with him and come back to me and DH sick. He would even go so far as not giving them their meds, and not refilling their meds. He has a gf now and i am hoping that the gf will make him get his shit together.



Is there a way that he can only see your dd under supervisn?

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LittleBear's mama:</b>" Been there for sure. My daughter used to call my place saying she was hungry, when i would ask where ... [snip!] ... and i am hoping that the gf will make him get his shit together. Is there a way that he can only see your dd under supervisn?"</blockquote>



Unfortunately no, the whole thing is a massive c*********k but technically he's primary even though he ditches her with his family all the time to do his own thing.



Eventually that will change. (Read as: when we can afford a lawyer)

LittleBear's mama 3 kids; Ontario 480 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting Sneakthief:" <blockquote><b>Quoting LittleBear's mama:</b>" Been there for sure. My daughter used ... [snip!] ... her with his family all the time to do his own thing. Eventually that will change. (Read as: when we can afford a lawyer)"

Sounds like my ex...are they related? lol. He ditches the kids all the time with his parents so he can go out to party. Thankfully the last year and a half they have been with me during the week and him only on the weekends cause he is in school out of town. Yet he still manages to bring them home sick? WTF. Hopefully it never goes back to complete shared custody. If we had the money we would be going for full custody, but lawyers are crazy expensive...sigh...