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Hate SO right now Belle. 2 kids; Alberta 6845 posts
Apr 16th '13

I'm puking/sitting on the toilet. Crying in pain because my stomache hurts so bad and I asked him to watch DS while I'm in the bathroom. He said no. Then after I got a glass of water and said "I'm really sick" and he was like " oh stop whining". Like f**k you buddy when you are sick I tend to your every single need and when I'm sick you kick me while I'm down. Thanks.

♥♬♡ 2 kids; Pennsylvania 10385 posts
Apr 16th '13

My SO is the same way, yet he acts like my 3 year old when hes sick/

XxWhite_RosexX 1 child; United Kingdom 1975 posts
Apr 16th '13

why wont he look after his own kid thats fucked up

GavinsMomJohnnysWife 2 kids; Texas 2789 posts
Apr 16th '13

My husband does some of the same shit. Drives me nuts. Remember that next time he's sick and acting like a baby that needs coddling.

ERMAGHERD BEEDS! 3 kids; Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 4103 posts
Apr 16th '13

That's insane. It's his son, why wouldn't he watch him? Doesn't make any sense to me

Buzz and Almond Joys momm 2 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 12593 posts
Apr 16th '13

He would not even have a choice. If he is home and not doing anything the gets the kids. ( then again I married a guy who just sees these sort of things as a given and would not even think of doing that)

The Pretender Due May 5; 2 kids; Brazil 1232 posts
Apr 16th '13

Are there really this many women on BG that think so little of themselves that they date, marry and have babies with extremely douchy guys???

Turtley Mikey Due October 31; 2 kids; California 50611 posts
Apr 16th '13

What a f**king douche! I'd drop kick his face into tomorrow once I felt better.

user banned California 36390 posts
Apr 16th '13

What a douche! I food poisoned myself last year and if DH hadn't called off work to take care of LO, I dont know what I would have done

Mama Lizzy :] 1 child; Texas 5575 posts
Apr 16th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Pretender:</b>" Are there really this many women on BG that think so little of themselves that they date, marry and have babies with extremely douchy guys???"</blockquote>




This is not always the situation :/

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16686 posts
Apr 16th '13
Quoting The Pretender:" Are there really this many women on BG that think so little of themselves that they date, marry and have babies with extremely douchy guys???"

:!:

LA REINA™ New York, NY, United States 16686 posts
Apr 16th '13
Quoting Mama Lizzy :]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Pretender:</b>" Are there really this many women on BG that ... [snip!] ... that they date, marry and have babies with extremely douchy guys???"</blockquote> This is not always the situation :/"


If you are sick and your SO refuses to watch his child, that is extremely immature and douchy. Sorry.

HappyMomTo2 2 kids; Maine 360 posts
Apr 16th '13

I would tell him its not like he has a choice. Asking him was just a courtesy. Its either you use the bathroom or you're going to be shitting on the floor.



Tell him next time you'll construct a binder with instructions since the task seems to be so difficult for him.

The Pretender Due May 5; 2 kids; Brazil 1232 posts
Apr 16th '13

I can't see any other reason that a good woman would put up with that shit. She, deep down inside, doesn't realize or feel like she deserves better.



Doesn't mean the woman is stupid or "bad" just doesn't hold herself to high enough standards.



Seen it 100s of times on this site- awesome women putting up with SHIT from douches.



I have had my share of douches- but I KNEW they were douches and NEVER gave them the privilege of any sort of actual relationship with me.



And I don't even think I'm that awesome- I just think NO women deserve that shit.



ETA: I think there are always red flags and signs the guy is a Douche the whole time. And if there, by some miracle, isn't, kick his ass to the curb. Most all of these women would do better on their own than putting up with some dude that "turned douche" overnight.

Buzz and Almond Joys momm 2 kids; Albuquerque, New Mexico 12593 posts
Apr 16th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Pretender:</b>" Are there really this many women on BG that think so little of themselves that they date, marry and have babies with extremely douchy guys???"</blockquote>




Another topic, but apparently so. I see so many women married to such jerks and wonder- was he always this?