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Projectpaige 4 kids; Corona, California 876 posts
16th Apr '13

He won't leave you because you're "fat", he's going to leave you because of this mindset. It takes almost a year or more to get back to normal. Relax, eat right, and exercise and most importantly enjoy your family. I hope you feel better.

MinnesotaMommy2One 1 child; Minnesota 2580 posts
16th Apr '13

Sounds like you could use the help of a counselor as you sound seriously depressed. Perhaps it is just manifesting itself in your unhappiness with your body

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" LMAO my husband put on more baby weight last time than I did. He's like having to consciously watch his weight this time because he doubled my baby weight last time."


mine is trying to lose weight since he got his letter for testing to be a police officer. i swear he is more moody than i am this time around

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
16th Apr '13

I just can't take it. I'm so depressed about it. Idk what to do I just want to feel pretty again. I've been dumped because I was fat, so I lost the weight and then bam I'm pregnant and I just don't want it to happen again.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs. Grinch:" I just can't take it. I'm so depressed about it. Idk what to do I just want to feel pretty again. I've ... [snip!] ... I've been dumped because I was fat, so I lost the weight and then bam I'm pregnant and I just don't want it to happen again."


you wernt dumped bc you were fat your were dumped bc the dude was an a*****e.

Projectpaige 4 kids; Corona, California 876 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" you wernt dumped bc you were fat your were dumped bc the dude was an a*****e. "</blockquote>




^^^^this exactly

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Queen Rowdy:</b>" Awe hun, sounds like your pretty miserable... Did it feel better to get some of that off your chest? ... [snip!] ... Im kind of reluctant to suggest this but, have you looked into a 'mummy make over'? Is it something you could save up for?"</blockquote>




Ya it did. I've been bottling it up because no one will listen. Is that like surgery? Or just hair and nails stuff?

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31068 posts
16th Apr '13

Yea..well uhh....when you noticed you were putting on so much weight while pregnant maybe you should've watched what you were eating better...I mean what did you think, the baby weighed 65 pounds or something? Lol....If you have such an issue with putting on weight, you should've thought about that while you were pregnant and packing on pounds like that. You are being crazily vain....if you think that losing weight will fix all of your issues, I think you are wrong. You have issues that go further than that if some weight gain is really causing you this much anguish.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting one of each 4 me:</b>" After reading your post it made me feel like you were stating that bc I am fat my kids deserve better ... [snip!] ... than me as a mom? I teach my kids looks don't matter. Not bc I was fat bc I wasn't always fat. But bc they don't or shouldn't."</blockquote>




No I was referring to he deserves better because I have issues with myself.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs. Grinch:" <blockquote><b>Quoting one of each 4 me:</b>" After reading your post it made me feel ... [snip!] ... bc they don't or shouldn't."</blockquote> No I was referring to he deserves better because I have issues with myself."


no one is perfect. be a good role model fix your issues and be happy for yourself and your baby. that is a heroic thing

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting TootsMcGoots:</b>" Really? You think your son deserves better because you have a bit of extra skin on your tummy? The same ... [snip!] ... -- the same type of body almost all women get after having a baby. Did you expect to look the same as you did pre-pregnancy? :?"</blockquote>




I guess I kinda did, ill admit it I had no idea what I was in for. I'm just surrounded by girls who bounced back like nothing and I got stuck with the fat genes

Meli ❤ 1 child; Don't worry about it, CA, United States 31068 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Well then.... So much wrong with this. If that's all you care about and think everyone else cares about. ... [snip!] ... is the least of your concerns. I'm fat, and on my second baby in less than 18 months, and my husband has NO issues with me. "


I am fat & I enjoy it haha. I figure, if a guy likes me he will like me fat and all lol. Even then, I really don't give too much thought into who thinks what about me...I am happy with who I am so if someone doesn't like it, that is their problem, not mine. What someone thinks of me affects my daily life in no way.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" you wernt dumped bc you were fat your were dumped bc the dude was an a*****e. "</blockquote>




Well when I was 17 I gained weight from the depo, and my exes friends made fun of him for being with a fatty so he dumped me.

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
16th Apr '13
Quoting Mrs. Grinch:" I just can't take it. I'm so depressed about it. Idk what to do I just want to feel pretty again. I've ... [snip!] ... I've been dumped because I was fat, so I lost the weight and then bam I'm pregnant and I just don't want it to happen again."


If your depressed, then get on some meds. Other than that I would suggest getting into some therapy because it seems like your issues are a lot deeper than just having some extra weight after pregnancy.
Yes there are some women out there who immediately bounce back after a pregnancy, and that isn't fair for women who don't. If you were over weight before, then you should know it is easier for you to keep on weight. Take it day by day. If you lost weight before, then I'm sure you know what you need to do now to lose weight again. Watch what you eat and keep working out. It isn't an over night process.

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
16th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting IDGAF ❤:</b>" Yea..well uhh....when you noticed you were putting on so much weight while pregnant maybe you should've ... [snip!] ... I think you are wrong. You have issues that go further than that if some weight gain is really causing you this much anguish. "</blockquote>




I didn't gain any weight until the last 3 months it just came out of nowhere, my eating habit didn't change at all I tried really hard to not gain weight. Idk why my body freaks out and gains weight when my hormones change levels