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Jeeper 1 child; Orlando, Florida 2287 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Akeema:" I'm kind of getting tired of everyone defending her. She's abusing her child and yet you are all oh that ... [snip!] ... felt bad for while the baby is forgotten. Stop making excuses for this woman to me it seems like she should never had a baby."

Thank you someone actually read everything I was saying and got it. Everyone we know agrees she should never have had a baby she has slept with 23 yes 23 different men since she lost her virginity 7 years ago and that is the ones she can remember she slept with a guy once just to get a ride home from the clubs. While she was pregnant she was clubbing all night refusing to see doctors and she isn't even sure who the father is. Before she was even pregnant enough to be tired she would lay in bed and sleep until 4 in the afternoon and then get up and eat her first meal for the day usually ramen noodle soup or a frozen dinner if she wasn't eating instant meals she would eat fast food. She doesn't take care of herself how in the hell are we supposed to expect her to take care of a baby.

Kait. 3 kids; Iowa 2345 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Akeema:" I'm kind of getting tired of everyone defending her. She's abusing her child and yet you are all oh that ... [snip!] ... felt bad for while the baby is forgotten. Stop making excuses for this woman to me it seems like she should never had a baby."


:!: Yes. Just, YES.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Akeema:" I'm kind of getting tired of everyone defending her. She's abusing her child and yet you are all oh that ... [snip!] ... felt bad for while the baby is forgotten. Stop making excuses for this woman to me it seems like she should never had a baby."


i agree just didnt want jumped on for saying it

TrixieGirl Due July 4; 1 child; Maryland 1175 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Jeeper:" Thank you someone actually read everything I was saying and got it. Everyone we know agrees she should ... [snip!] ... she would eat fast food. She doesn't take care of herself how in the hell are we supposed to expect her to take care of a baby."


If she is this terrible of a person, why were you even second guessing yourself to call CPS in the first place?

TrixieGirl Due July 4; 1 child; Maryland 1175 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Jeeper:" Thank you someone actually read everything I was saying and got it. Everyone we know agrees she should ... [snip!] ... she would eat fast food. She doesn't take care of herself how in the hell are we supposed to expect her to take care of a baby."


If she is this terrible of a person, why were you even second guessing yourself to call CPS in the first place?

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6200 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting TrixieGirl:" If she is this terrible of a person, why were you even second guessing yourself to call CPS in the first place?"


Good point.

Jeeper 1 child; Orlando, Florida 2287 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Akeema:" Good point."

Because I wanted to make sure I even had a valid case to call about. Also she was at some point my friend so I didn't want to do something that was mean when I might have just been overracting a little bit

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6200 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Jeeper:" Because I wanted to make sure I even had a valid case to call about. Also she was at some point my friend ... [snip!] ... was at some point my friend so I didn't want to do something that was mean when I might have just been overracting a little bit"

I don't know about the over reacting thing, I mean you obviously saw what she was doing and knew it was wrong.

TrixieGirl Due July 4; 1 child; Maryland 1175 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Jeeper:" Because I wanted to make sure I even had a valid case to call about. Also she was at some point my friend ... [snip!] ... was at some point my friend so I didn't want to do something that was mean when I might have just been overracting a little bit"


IMO when it comes to suspected neglect or abuse, you can never over react. Its better to just report what you observed and hope to be proven wrong...

Jeeper 1 child; Orlando, Florida 2287 posts
19th Apr '13

Yeah I just wanted to make sure I was doing the absolute right thing. Unfortunately they didn't do much but go out and tell her that she was doing it wrong and tell her how to do it right. They aren't keeping that close of an eye on her and last I heard she still isn't supporting the baby's head when she is carrying her. I'm not sure about when she picks her up now.

Akeema 18 kids; 1 angel baby; Altus AFB (AFB), Oklahoma 6200 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Jeeper:" Yeah I just wanted to make sure I was doing the absolute right thing. Unfortunately they didn't do much ... [snip!] ... I heard she still isn't supporting the baby's head when she is carrying her. I'm not sure about when she picks her up now. "


Man that's not good at all. I was hoping they would at least put her in a parenting course or something!

Jeeper 1 child; Orlando, Florida 2287 posts
19th Apr '13
Quoting Akeema:" Man that's not good at all. I was hoping they would at least put her in a parenting course or something!"

That is what I was hoping but unfortunately there are way to many idiots like her that don't know how to close their legs that just keep reproducing so all the resources are taken up and they don't have any more to offer.

MotherFalcon+2 2 kids; Fólkvangr, Asgard, YD, Sweden 4602 posts
9th May '13
Quoting Jeeper:" That is what I was hoping but unfortunately there are way to many idiots like her that don't know how ... [snip!] ... how to close their legs that just keep reproducing so all the resources are taken up and they don't have any more to offer."

yeah but those idiots are who the courses are serving to help. everyone deserves a chance to start anew and clean up their view on life. its times like this that get the message across, and you should still continue to try and help her as a mother yourself.



has there been any updates? hows the baby? im worried about the poor wittle :(

Jeeper 1 child; Orlando, Florida 2287 posts
9th May '13
Quoting MotherFalcon-6weeks!:" yeah but those idiots are who the courses are serving to help. everyone deserves a chance to start anew ... [snip!] ... to try and help her as a mother yourself. has there been any updates? hows the baby? im worried about the poor wittle :("

The pediatrician forced her to put the baby on formula due to failure to thrive. She has been on Facebook begging people to come take her baby for her so she can go out clubbing (the baby is only 3 weeks old) I haven't heard much else. I do know the baby is still alive but I don't know if she is in good health or being taken care of. I know she hasn't been home so I think she is hiding at a friends house so that CPS can't find her.