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Danu ♥ 3 2 kids; Phx, Az, United States 6210 posts
17th Apr '13

Some kind of substance abuse. Even then i'd probably just take a break until everything worked out and support with recovery.

BG ~Jennifer~ 1 child; Georgia 950 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Supafly★:" Mostly for married mamas since getting a divorce is much harder [technically, not emotionally] than just ... [snip!] ... a SAHM, hell you're 39 weeks 5 days pregnant and you would STILL walk out the door that very instant if he _____. What is it? "


I left my ex husband because he said he wanted a divorce, I found out 2 weeks later he was having an emotional affair with an ex, then he got insane about denying it to the point of abuse, then I decided I was totally fine being done with him, and he decided he wanted me back. No thanks.

ρiηkie ρie 3 kids; 3 angel babies; Kentucky 21902 posts
17th Apr '13

I'm not married, but I'm going to answer anyways because SO and I have been together a really long time and we will eventually be married. Drinking or hard drugs. I'm not talking about having a drink once in a while, but I've told SO that the first time he goes out and gets drunk or high he doesn't even need to come home. End of story, we're done. And I know how incredibly harsh that sounds, but I grew up watching my uncle get drunk and high just to come home and beat my aunt. (They lived with us most of my childhood.) I won't sit here and go into all the details but suffice it to say, I absolutely will not deal with it and I will not have my children exposed to it. Not even once.

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Captain Obvious:" The only way out of my marriage is in a body bag."


that's a little creepy...

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Crazyhazel89:" that's a little creepy..."


good thing you didn't marry me then :wink:

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Captain Obvious:" good thing you didn't marry me then :wink:"


hahah i read how many people agreed with you...........and I would be soooo creeped out if a guy said that to me!

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Crazyhazel89:" hahah i read how many people agreed with you...........and I would be soooo creeped out if a guy said that to me!"



I've been married to my husband for 5 years, together for 10....not much he could say to creep me out.

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Crazyhazel89:" hahah i read how many people agreed with you...........and I would be soooo creeped out if a guy said that to me!"


My husband and I say it to one another. We actually talked about it on our first date.

lolajessup 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44076 posts
17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting ILOVEWINE:</b>" Physical or emotional abuse, or cheating. I would never get past it."</blockquote>




This, although I may be able to work on abuse through separation and counseling, but cheating I couldn't get past I don't think. I guess my other is continuous lying. I am at my wits end with it and honestly I just can't so it again. So if I cath him in another lie I'm gone for good this time. But other than that I'm willing to work on just about anything.

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6268 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Supafly★:" Mostly for married mamas since getting a divorce is much harder [technically, not emotionally] than just ... [snip!] ... a SAHM, hell you're 39 weeks 5 days pregnant and you would STILL walk out the door that very instant if he _____. What is it? "


Cheating and abuse are the only thing that would make me walk out. And being a shitty father to our children.



Anything else I feel like we could work on. If he had an addiction I would try to get him help before I just up and left. If he was lazy I would put him in his place.



We aren't married yet but the only difference is the paperwork.. he isn't just my boyfriend or SO... we've been together for six years and through hell and back. Been engaged for two years eventually we'll get married, when we can afford the wedding that I want :lol:

nothingness Arizona 3578 posts
17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Captain Obvious:</b>" The only way out of my marriage is in a body bag."</blockquote>




This

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting loser mom:" Had a drinking problem and refused to get help. "


This times a thousand!
I grew up with alcoholic parents and there is NO WAY in hell I will EVER put my kids through that.
Thank God DH has a beer like once a month.

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14304 posts
17th Apr '13

Thanks for the replies everyone.

user banned 2 kids; Iowa 7762 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Supafly★:" Thanks for the replies everyone. I've always been a fan of "till death do us part" but I don't know ... [snip!] ... It seems to just get worse and worse. I really want to try since everyone else in my family is divorced but....we'll see. "


I'm sorry hun. Don't beat yourself up for it though. What kind of issues are you having?

~The Lunar Flower~ 2 kids; Alabama 6748 posts
17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mummy-2-2-Monsters:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~The Lunar Flower~:</b>" If he told me he didn't love me anymore. ... [snip!] ... me think of the movie serious moonlight lol. Strap him with duct tape to the toilet so he could "fall back in love with you" :)"</blockquote>



Pretty much lol! He was joking about breaking up once so I told him i'd lock him in my closet & feed him bolony string through the door :D