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Plus size and sexy Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9826 posts
status 17th Apr '13

Ugh idk how they do it. My best friend has been plus size her whole life but she's super beautiful. She can wear shorts and tank tops and still be adorable. I see bigger women all over that are larger and still really hot. The second I put on shorts or tank tops and such I feel so ugly. Idk how they do it :( what's the secret to being plus size and still attractive.... Before the baby I never felt unattrative. Now I just feel gross all the time. I'm trying to lose weight but until I get it all off idk how to still be pretty

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
17th Apr '13

find clothes that compliment your body type and have confience!

LumpySpacePrincess 2 kids; New Zealand 17060 posts
17th Apr '13

I have absolutely no idea. I can't wear shorts and a top. I have to wear very specific clothes to hide all my lumps and bumps and wriggly bits and even then I barely look good let alone sexy lol.



But then you see bigger women and they are hella fine. Like daaaaayuuuuum fine. It's so not fair.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9826 posts
status 17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting I love Kenzi:</b>" find clothes that compliment your body type and have confience!"</blockquote>




I try so hard but somehow it never works. I guess I just have a weird body lol.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9826 posts
status 17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:</b>" I have absolutely no idea. I can't wear shorts and a top. I have to wear very specific clothes to hide ... [snip!] ... good let alone sexy lol. But then you see bigger women and they are hella fine. Like daaaaayuuuuum fine. It's so not fair."</blockquote>




I know right! I saw a girl at the park yesterday way bigger than me in short shorts and a black tank top and I was like daaaaaaaaaaaaamn I'd do her.

vaginaboob Due January 3; 1 child; Illinois 330 posts
17th Apr '13

Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear. If you are comfortable in your own skin and accept who you are, people will do the same.

♡Makeup Addiction♡ 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Milwaukee, WI, United States 4546 posts
17th Apr '13

I'd like to know to. Even after losing 40+ lbs i still look lumpy, cellulite thighs, bubble gum tummy and sad saggy boobies nothing looks good on my 5"2' 140lb frame. I look horrible unless im in workout clothes, but shorts, skirts, dresses are a nono for me

user banned 1 child; :), :), United States 5380 posts
17th Apr '13

I dunno. I'm a size 12 and wear pants year round. I finally got up the nerve to wear shirts that don't cover my upper arms.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9826 posts
status 17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.DamonSalvatore:</b>" I'd like to know to. Even after losing 40+ lbs i still look lumpy, cellulite thighs, bubble gum tummy ... [snip!] ... looks good on my 5"2' 140lb frame. I look horrible unless im in workout clothes, but shorts, skirts, dresses are a nono for me"</blockquote>



The saggy boobs are the worst! I got dds in 6th grade so by the time I hit my 20s they were super saggy. My "friend" would always use it against me cause she knew it was my only confidence killer pre baby. She'd go out of her way to say I had saggy boobs if we were around guys who were giving me more attention.

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
17th Apr '13
Quoting Just Emily :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting LumpySpacePrincess:</b>" I have absolutely no idea. I can't ... [snip!] ... girl at the park yesterday way bigger than me in short shorts and a black tank top and I was like daaaaaaaaaaaaamn I'd do her."


its because ''big girls'' are usually proportioned so the curves compliment each other. ''After baby bodies'' tend to be disproportioned :(

NICKEL☮POLIS 2 kids; Ontario 6268 posts
17th Apr '13

Confidence. Clothes that fit right. Confidence.

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9826 posts
status 17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom-moo:</b>" I dunno. I'm a size 12 and wear pants year round. I finally got up the nerve to wear shirts that don't cover my upper arms."</blockquote>




I haven't worn shorts since like 4th grade. And that includes two years living in San Diego. I just recently bought capris.

(Pregulator♡] Due November 27 (girl); 2 kids; 4 angel babies; I'll Never Tell..., WI, United States 3983 posts
17th Apr '13

Id like to know this too.. Im up to a size 24 :( im so embarassed. Now im pregnant so dieting is out.. but i am eating healthier and i plan to swim a lot this summer :) im going to have a bitchin time finding 3x freaking maternity clothes that fit decent..ugh. such is life i guess

Just Emily :) 2 kids; Casa grande, Az, United States 9826 posts
status 17th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting 6 blessings so far....:</b>" its because ''big girls'' are usually proportioned so the curves compliment each other. ''After baby bodies'' tend to be disproportioned :( "</blockquote>




That's very true. And I think my saggy tummy adds an extra size so it throws off the fit.

Brandy Rakes Due January 14 (boy); 1 child; Barboursville, West Virginia 113 posts
17th Apr '13

I had no clue so many moms felt this way. I thought I was the only one. I have had the hardest time losing weight and at 140 they say I'm still way over weight.