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sonofagun. user banned
18th Apr '13

you can look all over
but you'll never find
hot shit like mine.

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
18th Apr '13

They CAN if they see you are a threat to yourself.
That is how I was admitted in the passed :? They gave me 24 hours to take myself and if I didn't then I would have someone sent for me.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting InkDMomma:" They CAN if they see you are a threat to yourself. That is how I was admitted in the passed :? They gave me 24 hours to take myself and if I didn't then I would have someone sent for me."


fuck.
yeah, I don't want that.
Like, what are the odds of them THINKING I'm a thread to myself if I'm not?

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
18th Apr '13

no unless you are threatening to kill yourself and i think harm yourself in that moment. ive gone to see alot of therapists/ physiatrists and had fresh cuts, and ive discussed how i planned on hurting myself in the future, and.they just helped me through it.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
18th Apr '13

thanks ladies!
i don't want to go see someone and pay a shit load of money only to feel like I have to "hide" things, ya know? They can't help if they don't know what's going on.
But I don't want to be hospitalized.



I appreciate the responses!

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Carissa Biron:" no unless you are threatening to kill yourself and i think harm yourself in that moment. ive gone to ... [snip!] ... and had fresh cuts, and ive discussed how i planned on hurting myself in the future, and.they just helped me through it."


Thats why I was admitted because of all the cuts on my arms.
I never once said I wanted to die, I just said it gave me a release of stress when I did it and they put me in the hospital for months :?

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting drunk mayhem.:" thanks ladies! i don't want to go see someone and pay a shit load of money only to feel like I have ... [snip!] ... know? They can't help if they don't know what's going on. But I don't want to be hospitalized. I appreciate the responses!"


Maybe... like test them out first? KWIM?
Don't unleash everything at first... test the waters.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting InkDMomma:" Maybe... like test them out first? KWIM? Don't unleash everything at first... test the waters."


Yeah I plan on it. But paying $60-$100 a session, I don't want to drag it out for TOOOO long, I'm broke as fuck lol

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting drunk mayhem.:" Yeah I plan on it. But paying $60-$100 a session, I don't want to drag it out for TOOOO long, I'm broke as fuck lol "


lol yeah true.
I just have a really hard time trusting them, I have had a few completely blind side me and fuck me over with the hospital stays and shit. I mean yeah I tried to commit suicide a few times in my passed but I was honest about those, self harming doesn't always mean you want to die, it just helped deal with the stress and sometimes you just needed it to know you are alive still.
Sounds dumb, I know but... yeah.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting InkDMomma:" lol yeah true. I just have a really hard time trusting them, I have had a few completely blind side ... [snip!] ... just helped deal with the stress and sometimes you just needed it to know you are alive still. Sounds dumb, I know but... yeah."


no, I agree.
I had a similar issue with a counselor when I was a teen, and it kind of warped my view on them in general. But DH is really trying to convince me that he is not my counselor lol

CJKB+JMB=AMB 1 child; Watertown, New York 2525 posts
18th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" Thats why I was admitted because of all the cuts on my arms. I never once said I wanted to die, I just said it gave me a release of stress when I did it and they put me in the hospital for months :?"</blockquote>




that's HORRIBLE they should not have done that. ive always had it stated to me what would make them send me to the hospital and they made it clear they would only for threatening to kill myself, other people, or hurting myself in the room...
op i agree you should still def go, and ask them there policy on self harm and what specifically they will report you for... i hope everything works out for you <3

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting drunk mayhem.:" no, I agree. I had a similar issue with a counselor when I was a teen, and it kind of warped my view on them in general. But DH is really trying to convince me that he is not my counselor lol "


counselor was the first one to ever fuck me over with it. I still hate her to this day for it. I hate when people fake that will do one thing and then flip and do another. Because of her I missed 6 months of middle school.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting InkDMomma:" counselor was the first one to ever fuck me over with it. I still hate her to this day for it. I hate ... [snip!] ... I hate when people fake that will do one thing and then flip and do another. Because of her I missed 6 months of middle school."


I was told that everything was confidential, my parents wouldn't be contacted, etc. And it just wasn't true. I'm just upset, like, at least be honest and dont give me a false sense of security.
IDK, I hate everyone lol

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting drunk mayhem.:" I was told that everything was confidential, my parents wouldn't be contacted, etc. And it just wasn't ... [snip!] ... wasn't true. I'm just upset, like, at least be honest and dont give me a false sense of security. IDK, I hate everyone lol "


I know EXACTLY how you feel. She would call my mom after every single time I saw her but no one told me that until way later. I hated everyone. I kind of blame all of that crap for all my trust issues I have now.

user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting InkDMomma:" I know EXACTLY how you feel. She would call my mom after every single time I saw her but no one told ... [snip!] ... but no one told me that until way later. I hated everyone. I kind of blame all of that crap for all my trust issues I have now."


Yeah, it's definitely caused me to have some hesitation with finding someone to talk to. I'm pretty trusting in people, generally, but with this I'm just super stressed about it.