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Love my midget Due March 1; Oklahoma City, 175 posts
18th Apr '13

Just make sure you get on B.C soon after the birth of this baby. Living with your SO and already being so young and a mom you do not need to get pregnant again anytime soon, they have many permanent B.C options out there now a days.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" My mom is verbally abusive our whole family stays far away, they feel bad for her but no one knows ... [snip!] ... use to get a long with her very well would never call my mom nuts a year ago.. she just needs help I hope she gets it soon."



You think shes nuts because thats what ALL 16 year olds think. And as far as the other family, you really dont know why they stay away.. It could be because of other reasons that you dont know about. And I agree with the other women. Patch things up with your mom. You are oging to need her. My mom and I dont have the best relationship, frankly she drives me mad insane and really pisses me off. But I know at the end of the day, she will be there for me and my son if we need her when nobody else is.

Captain Obvious 2 kids; Havana, Cuba 25634 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" I know that is not all there is to it, I am sure there is way more but financially is soo important just takes a lot of stress off."


Where do you live and what do you consider good money? Does he already live on his own?

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" You think shes nuts because thats what ALL 16 year olds think. And as far as the other family, you ... [snip!] ... pisses me off. But I know at the end of the day, she will be there for me and my son if we need her when nobody else is. "


I do know why they have no issue saying it..and again was very close to my mom before things occurred I know my mom needs help, we all do.

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Captain Obvious:" Where do you live and what do you consider good money? Does he already live on his own?"


Yes he lives on his own, he works commission but he works all day most days on call for a tow company.. he does well financially.

Love my midget Due March 1; Oklahoma City, 175 posts
18th Apr '13

Just make sure you get on B.C soon after the birth of this baby. Living with your SO and already being so young and a mom you do not need to get pregnant again anytime soon, they have many permanent B.C options out there now a days.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" Yes he lives on his own, he works commission but he works all day most days on call for a tow company.. he does well financially."


She is talking about money.. Like give her an annual salary that he makes. I know off hand my ex made around 60,000 - 65,000 a year when we were together.

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Love my midget:" Just make sure you get on B.C soon after the birth of this baby. Living with your SO and already being ... [snip!] ... young and a mom you do not need to get pregnant again anytime soon, they have many permanent B.C options out there now a days."


Not getting on permanent birth control -_- but will be going back to the birthcontrol I was on before really liked it.

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36449 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" Not getting on permanent birth control -_- but will be going back to the birthcontrol I was on before really liked it."



Do you know what permanent birth control is? Its implanon, mirena, and the other non hormonal one. They are called permanent but they can be removed.

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" She is talking about money.. Like give her an annual salary that he makes. I know off hand my ex made around 60,000 - 65,000 a year when we were together. "


idk off hand I just know he makes good money he has 2 cars his own little house he is only 18... most of us know he does well



just do not know how much he makes a year off hand.

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Do you know what permanent birth control is? Its implanon, mirena, and the other non hormonal one. They are called permanent but they can be removed. "

Yes I know.

Squeaky McGee 2 kids; 3 angel babies; Indiana 63810 posts
18th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Totheendandback:</b>" Not getting on permanent birth control -_- but will be going back to the birthcontrol I was on before really liked it."</blockquote>




Yes, because that worked so well for you before.

ArmyWife & Mom x3 TTC since Jan 2014; 3 kids; Colorado 2066 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" You think shes nuts because thats what ALL 16 year olds think. And as far as the other family, you ... [snip!] ... pisses me off. But I know at the end of the day, she will be there for me and my son if we need her when nobody else is. "


This!

Totheendandback Due November 17; Japan 206 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Squeaky McGee [25 wks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Totheendandback:</b>" Not getting on permanent birth control ... [snip!] ... to the birthcontrol I was on before really liked it."</blockquote> Yes, because that worked so well for you before."


umm okay lol I am not talking about birth control I was on when I got pregnant.. but okay ??

OldermommaIguess Japan 50 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting Totheendandback:" Not getting on permanent birth control -_- but will be going back to the birthcontrol I was on before really liked it."



why not? if I may ask