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I need advice (other people spanking your child) whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 18th '13

So Ainsley is with her dad during the day and with me at night. Last week I had a breakdown and she stayed there till yesterday.
I just went to go get her in the shower and notices bruises on her butt. She said Nana spanked her with a rod 3 times.



I took pictures. What else do I do?
What would you do?
They know I don't agree with it but her dad does and he doesn't respect anything I want.

tinana+2 2 kids; Jesus, FC, Aruba 35459 posts
status Apr 18th '13

With a ROD? I would take her to the freakin hospital and have it documented, and have them call CPS right from there. That is EFFED up!

That b***h wouldn't be allowed near my kid again.

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
Apr 18th '13

With a ROD? Wtf? I'd be ripping her a new a*****e!

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
Apr 18th '13

Yup I'd take her to the hospital too.

.Jezebel. TTC since Dec 2015; 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 10050 posts
Apr 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tinana+2:</b>" With a ROD? I would take her to the freakin hospital and have it documented, and have them call CPS right from there. That is EFFED up!"</blockquote>




This! That is terrible.

izzy+Ethan 2 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 4056 posts
Apr 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:</b>" So Ainsley is with her dad during the day and with me at night. Last week I had a breakdown and she stayed ... [snip!] ... else do I do? What would you do? They know I don't agree with it but her dad does and he doesn't respect anything I want."</blockquote>




I would not let her or him whoever did it not take them or get them unsupervised spanking hard enough to bruise it not good ...I swat the bum never that hard



Just no!

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
Apr 18th '13

If it left a bruise it is technically child abuse. However... accusing her of child abuse will open many cans of worms. I personally would just not let her see her Nana alone ever again.

HamHam 18 kids; India 3485 posts
Apr 18th '13

That's not spanking... That's physical abuse! Please take her to the hospital and get it documented/reported.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
Apr 18th '13

I'd probably have her old ass bent over a chair whipping her with a rod right this very minute.




Somebody'd have to pick me up from jail.

♥Hippie Momma♥ Due July 3 (girl); 1 child; Colorado 570 posts
Apr 18th '13

I would punch that old lady in the face.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Apr 18th '13

I'd take pics and call my local police department.

Meℓony ♥ 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 3800 posts
Apr 18th '13
Quoting tinana+2:" With a ROD? I would take her to the freakin hospital and have it documented, and have them call CPS right from there. That is EFFED up! That b***h wouldn't be allowed near my kid again."

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I would NEVER let my daughter go over there again.. and I would flip shit. But first I would take her to the hospital or doctor and have it documented for sure. Let her tell them what they did to her

Nancy Botwin. 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Hooker, 11409 posts
Apr 18th '13

Hell f**king no.
She would never be allowed near my child again.

whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
Apr 18th '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting Dovahkiin:</b>" If it left a bruise it is technically child abuse. However... accusing her of child abuse will open many cans of worms. I personally would just not let her see her Nana alone ever again. "</blockquote>




Her dad lives with his parents and he goes into work for 3 and I don't get out till around 3. I don't have a choice but to have her watch her

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
Apr 18th '13

Are the bruises rod shaped?