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I need advice (other people spanking your child) whitney ♥ ainsley 1 child; New Hampshire 16454 posts
18th Apr '13

So Ainsley is with her dad during the day and with me at night. Last week I had a breakdown and she stayed there till yesterday.
I just went to go get her in the shower and notices bruises on her butt. She said Nana spanked her with a rod 3 times.



I took pictures. What else do I do?
What would you do?
They know I don't agree with it but her dad does and he doesn't respect anything I want.

tinana+2 TTC since Nov 2013; 2 kids; Staten Island, NY, United States 29663 posts
18th Apr '13

With a ROD? I would take her to the freakin hospital and have it documented, and have them call CPS right from there. That is EFFED up!

That bitch wouldn't be allowed near my kid again.

Tikaytasha 17 kids; New York 11503 posts
18th Apr '13

With a ROD? Wtf? I'd be ripping her a new asshole!

Ladee+Grant+Lilly 2 kids; Tallahassee, FL, United States 20835 posts
18th Apr '13

The best you can do is document it, and confront him with it and tell him if it happens again you have documentation from this time, and next time you will go to authorities for abuse. I spank my kids (well, kid DD isn't old enough yet) but it goes too far when it leaves marks like that on them.

Sneakmom 2 kids; Texas 4861 posts
18th Apr '13

Yup I'd take her to the hospital too.

.Jezebel. 1 child; Sumter, South Carolina 9452 posts
18th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting tinana+2:</b>" With a ROD? I would take her to the freakin hospital and have it documented, and have them call CPS right from there. That is EFFED up!"</blockquote>




This! That is terrible.

izzy+Ethan 2 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 4056 posts
18th Apr '13

<blockquote><b>Quoting whitney ♥ ainsley:</b>" So Ainsley is with her dad during the day and with me at night. Last week I had a breakdown and she stayed ... [snip!] ... else do I do? What would you do? They know I don't agree with it but her dad does and he doesn't respect anything I want."</blockquote>




I would not let her or him whoever did it not take them or get them unsupervised spanking hard enough to bruise it not good ...I swat the bum never that hard



Just no!

Supafly★ 2 kids; Poland 14113 posts
18th Apr '13

I would call them up and tell them if you ever find out about something like that happening again, that is the last time they will see her. Take pictures and record said phone call.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
18th Apr '13

If it left a bruise it is technically child abuse. However... accusing her of child abuse will open many cans of worms. I personally would just not let her see her Nana alone ever again.

HamHam 18 kids; India 3485 posts
18th Apr '13

That's not spanking... That's physical abuse! Please take her to the hospital and get it documented/reported.

user banned 3 kids; Los Angeles, California 54034 posts
18th Apr '13

I'd probably have her old ass bent over a chair whipping her with a rod right this very minute.




Somebody'd have to pick me up from jail.

♥Hippie Momma♥ Due July 3 (girl); 1 child; Colorado 570 posts
18th Apr '13

I would punch that old lady in the face.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
18th Apr '13

I'd take pics and call my local police department.

Meℓony ♥ 1 child; Huntsville, AL, United States 3798 posts
18th Apr '13
Quoting tinana+2:" With a ROD? I would take her to the freakin hospital and have it documented, and have them call CPS right from there. That is EFFED up! That bitch wouldn't be allowed near my kid again."

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I would NEVER let my daughter go over there again.. and I would flip shit. But first I would take her to the hospital or doctor and have it documented for sure. Let her tell them what they did to her

Nancy Botwin. 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hooker, 11285 posts
18th Apr '13

Hell fucking no.
She would never be allowed near my child again.